Yes it's totally normal. Although I never lived it, I knew someone who lived your exact situation. (it makes me wonder if you could be her) I was her outlet to vent off and I was there to listen and try to help her through it. I really don't think anything will change with him. The only thing to do is to ignore what he says, it's not true anyways. Stay strong, don't let yourself get pushed down. I know how much you wish the 4 years were done with already but just keep telling yourself you will not endure this all your life. I really wish that you didn't have to endure all of that crap from him and that you could already be out of his house. If you need to vent off frustration, I can be there to listen to you and try to help out. Be strong.
thank you very much for your words ;) well, I'm definitely not "her", because I'm a guy :D actually, I'll probably never be out of this house, because it doesn't belong to my father. It belongs to my mother. But once the house will be mine. Once I have my job and my car, he will get all his insults back. And if he keeps giving me headache, I'll kick him out of the house with no hesitations. Otherwise, trust me, I'm trying to ignore his crap. The problem is that his comments always leave a bitter taste in my mouth and fill me up with bad energy, and my day is ruined down. I don't know how to ignore it. :(
I deeply hate my father. Is that normal?
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Yes it's totally normal. Although I never lived it, I knew someone who lived your exact situation. (it makes me wonder if you could be her) I was her outlet to vent off and I was there to listen and try to help her through it. I really don't think anything will change with him. The only thing to do is to ignore what he says, it's not true anyways. Stay strong, don't let yourself get pushed down. I know how much you wish the 4 years were done with already but just keep telling yourself you will not endure this all your life. I really wish that you didn't have to endure all of that crap from him and that you could already be out of his house. If you need to vent off frustration, I can be there to listen to you and try to help out. Be strong.
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thank you very much for your words ;) well, I'm definitely not "her", because I'm a guy :D actually, I'll probably never be out of this house, because it doesn't belong to my father. It belongs to my mother. But once the house will be mine. Once I have my job and my car, he will get all his insults back. And if he keeps giving me headache, I'll kick him out of the house with no hesitations. Otherwise, trust me, I'm trying to ignore his crap. The problem is that his comments always leave a bitter taste in my mouth and fill me up with bad energy, and my day is ruined down. I don't know how to ignore it. :(