Leave a message with the police. Don't accuse him of anything or exaggerate things, but make it absolutely clear that the chance of him attacking you is a very real threat. Maybe even several messages in the form of emails, voicemails, or even hand-delivered letters.
If things progress to the point where you feel genuinely unsafe and believe you need police detail outside your home, then you've already established traceable paper trail and they can't say that your fears are unfounded
Take care of yourself. I'm glad you're out of that relationship and hopefully your ex has the good sense of mind to leave you be
You could be giving them information about him that they need for another case. At the very least, you have his name, address and phone number.
Say they need to identify a murderer from a few identifying details, and you happen to know him very well and have all his contact details - or at least his past ones? Even if he changes them, you will still be able to maintain that in such-and-such-a-year, he lived in such-and-such-a-place, and that might corroborate with other evidence and validate it so that the investigators can draw a conclusion from it.
I dated a potential serial killer. ( narcissistic abuse)
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Leave a message with the police. Don't accuse him of anything or exaggerate things, but make it absolutely clear that the chance of him attacking you is a very real threat. Maybe even several messages in the form of emails, voicemails, or even hand-delivered letters.
If things progress to the point where you feel genuinely unsafe and believe you need police detail outside your home, then you've already established traceable paper trail and they can't say that your fears are unfounded
Take care of yourself. I'm glad you're out of that relationship and hopefully your ex has the good sense of mind to leave you be
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This is a really good suggestion. I don't know how well it would work with our police force, however.
"So he hasn't threatened you?"
"No but by mentioning these stuff, and that he had thoughts of going after his ex I do feel unsafe..."
I guess no harm can come from calling them to see what's what.
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You could be giving them information about him that they need for another case. At the very least, you have his name, address and phone number.
Say they need to identify a murderer from a few identifying details, and you happen to know him very well and have all his contact details - or at least his past ones? Even if he changes them, you will still be able to maintain that in such-and-such-a-year, he lived in such-and-such-a-place, and that might corroborate with other evidence and validate it so that the investigators can draw a conclusion from it.