I'm not a woman, so I can't speak from personal experience, but my understanding is that how women experience orgasms can vary quite a bit. When physical sensations, emotional state and the setting all align perfectly, they can be absolutely cosmic. Other orgasms may feel like only a release of physical tension - pleasurable, but nothing astonishing. Most will probably fall somewhere between those two extremes.
You will experience orgasms in the way that's normal for you. Maybe what you experienced the first time is the norm for you, or maybe that will prove to the be the most amazing orgasm you ever experience, but it's probably more likely you'll experience even better ones as you get more practice. Try not to think about that too much, and just be in the moment when you're having sex.
i cried the first time i had sex
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I'm not a woman, so I can't speak from personal experience, but my understanding is that how women experience orgasms can vary quite a bit. When physical sensations, emotional state and the setting all align perfectly, they can be absolutely cosmic. Other orgasms may feel like only a release of physical tension - pleasurable, but nothing astonishing. Most will probably fall somewhere between those two extremes.
You will experience orgasms in the way that's normal for you. Maybe what you experienced the first time is the norm for you, or maybe that will prove to the be the most amazing orgasm you ever experience, but it's probably more likely you'll experience even better ones as you get more practice. Try not to think about that too much, and just be in the moment when you're having sex.