I completely hate my sister

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My sister has been ruining the lives of my entire family for years. Every day she tries to piss me off on as many occasions as she can. She screams, claps her hands, throws things at people, taunts the whole family, even my PARENTS. She abuses our cats, falling on top of them, turning them upside down and dropping them, and picking them up by their front legs and swinging them around right in front of my eyes. She goes on the internet and pretends to be other people because she is socially unaccepted for who she is. Whenever she talks to her few friends on the phone, it's always roasting on me, and she makes stuff up about me just to make me look bad! She tries so hard to piss me off and eventually I just lose it and slam her on the ground restraining her because she also throws knives, metal objects and drinks at me and that just sets me off. I try so hard to keep my temper because I know if I act out once, my mom will be all over me and she will be blamed for nothing, but sometimes I can't. Then she calls my mom and tells her how I beat her up and she did "nothing". My mom falls for it every time, but my dad doesn't buy the bs and so they end up fighting on whether to punish her or not and I'm caught in the middle. My parent's marriage is being ripped apart and so am I. I know sometimes siblings say they hate eachother but my sister is a psychopath and I have thoughts of suicide all the time now because I just can't stand my life, this summer with her has been horrible. I try to talk to my mom about it but she never takes me seriously or she just flat ignores me because she is in denial that my sister is insane. She NEEDS help but she isn't gonna get it. I really hate my sister, I no longer view her as a member of my family. I don't know if anyone else is in my situation but if you are I really need some advice.

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  • Phoenix599
    12 years ago

    First things first. You MUST not try to restrain your sister. That will put all of this to hell. When your sister is not home, or your out with your parents without your sister try to sit down and explain it to them. If you cant do that, you will need to ask another adult that has some sort of link to your parents, like a neighbor or someone they know from work. You need to tell them about your sister's behavior. What i suggest you do is to videotape it. Conceal a camera in your room. And be clever. Cameras can be large and sometimes hard to hide. You need a place where it will be out of reach, out of sight but still in view of your entire room with audio. If this does not work, your best bet will be to contact the local Sheriffs Office.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Insist to your dad that he get family counselling for the whole family.

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  • Kuperman11
    12 years ago

    same problem besides the marriage part (my parents split up when i was about 2 i am the oldest)

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  • boys-are-toys
    13 years ago

    I know exactly how you feel it's just so frustrating.. i have 2 sisters like this ( except the cat thing) i don't know if she is actually the kind of person you can talk to but maybe try and get involved in something she is involved in like a hobby that will get you both talking. If that wont work and you know for sure it wont work i would suggest talk to your dad about getting her help since he listens to you.

    She seems like she want's attention or has a hard life herself..

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Oh my goodness. I feel really really honestly bad for you. I think your sisters not normal but your perfectly normal hating her.

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  • pinkperson
    14 years ago

    poor cats:<

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  • Galaxy500
    14 years ago

    Your mom needs to somehow hop on board with this but yes your sister needs help BIG TIME

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