Why is he drinking in the first place? It's "normal" to desire someone/or something else if your bf has problems, but did you try helping him deal with his problems first? It doesn't seem like either you tried, or tried enough, or it just didn't get very far, no matter how hard you tried. Either way, maybe you should have tried knowing him more, and knowing why he was depressed.
Anyway, you should be feeling bad, yes, but that only shows that your feelings are genuine (of course, I'm not going to say you love him ALWAYS, as you have amply shown us here), but it shows that you love him TO A CERTAIN EXTENT. Now, how are you going to show such love? Try talking to him and finding out what's the matter.
I cheated, and its tearing me apart
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Why is he drinking in the first place? It's "normal" to desire someone/or something else if your bf has problems, but did you try helping him deal with his problems first? It doesn't seem like either you tried, or tried enough, or it just didn't get very far, no matter how hard you tried. Either way, maybe you should have tried knowing him more, and knowing why he was depressed.
Anyway, you should be feeling bad, yes, but that only shows that your feelings are genuine (of course, I'm not going to say you love him ALWAYS, as you have amply shown us here), but it shows that you love him TO A CERTAIN EXTENT. Now, how are you going to show such love? Try talking to him and finding out what's the matter.