You, however, "need" to tell him. That's your problem; don't make it his. Keep your mouth shut - you have no right to upset him merely to unload your own guilt.
Now, stop feeling guilty. You did something you regret. Learn from it and move on. Also, remember you did it for a reason. He was being a shit husband for a long time. You can't neglect a marriage like that - it's a recipe for disaster. Don't be shocked if your pet runs away because you failed to feed it.
Each partner in an exclusive relationship is responsible for the other's happiness. And neither has a right to deny the other the right to seek happiness if it is not available in the relationship.
Perhaps you would be happier now if you had left him before cheating. Who knows. It doesn't matter - you strayed because you were unhappy. That's not your fault.
I cheated, and its tearing me apart
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Cheating - it's your cross to bear, not his.
He doesn't need to know.
You, however, "need" to tell him. That's your problem; don't make it his. Keep your mouth shut - you have no right to upset him merely to unload your own guilt.
Now, stop feeling guilty. You did something you regret. Learn from it and move on. Also, remember you did it for a reason. He was being a shit husband for a long time. You can't neglect a marriage like that - it's a recipe for disaster. Don't be shocked if your pet runs away because you failed to feed it.
Each partner in an exclusive relationship is responsible for the other's happiness. And neither has a right to deny the other the right to seek happiness if it is not available in the relationship.
Perhaps you would be happier now if you had left him before cheating. Who knows. It doesn't matter - you strayed because you were unhappy. That's not your fault.
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Oh, not husband. Boyfriend. Whatever.
You're not married? Dump his ass.