It's not the right thing to do, but sometimes it happens. I guess if you are really that unhappy. I cheated on my ex when we were together but that was after 4 long years of being unhappy and him not willing to change his ways. It's not right and it's not the best way to do things, but I guess in some instances it's normal. You really should have tried talking to him about being unhappy though. At least try to get things better in your relationship before you resorted to cheating.
Also if he has been drinking a lot it sounds like that needs to be addressed. Even I would not put up with someone always drinking alcohol. I had a father like that and I'm not about to deal with that again.
But what u dud is said and done. The least you could do is fess up about it. It may end ur relationship but you owe it to him to tell him. That is, if you really do live him.
I cheated, and its tearing me apart
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It's not the right thing to do, but sometimes it happens. I guess if you are really that unhappy. I cheated on my ex when we were together but that was after 4 long years of being unhappy and him not willing to change his ways. It's not right and it's not the best way to do things, but I guess in some instances it's normal. You really should have tried talking to him about being unhappy though. At least try to get things better in your relationship before you resorted to cheating.
Also if he has been drinking a lot it sounds like that needs to be addressed. Even I would not put up with someone always drinking alcohol. I had a father like that and I'm not about to deal with that again.
But what u dud is said and done. The least you could do is fess up about it. It may end ur relationship but you owe it to him to tell him. That is, if you really do live him.