I cheated

Can I be next?

Keep it to yourself, nobody has to know everything...

I dont think i like you

seriously people if ur just going to comment about puntuation then dont leave a comment its fuckin stupid and annoying

You fail at punctuation.

Face the fact that u are a freak, but that's not all bad. U slept with an ex AND another dude on the same night?! U are a bad chic! Don't let him know that u slept with the ex. This is not normal, but either control yourself or set that man free, unless he's a freak like you. Some people like too much drama in their life.

Ok put yourself in your partners shoes, if he had cheated would you want him to tell you????
I think he needs to know and then make his own mind up as to whether he wants to be with you.

ok so um....he thinks it is a good idea for his 4 year old to go to our couples counseling so i cant tell him wtf this isnt right i dont get it

sorry but you sound like a ho...dnt get married to anyone til uve been adequetly humped by as many internet freaks as possible...i pity ur b/f he should know.

your dirty and your cootchie will fall off soon.

I cheated on a couple girls but always told them. I guess it's a personal preference.

you are just a whore. Guess you can live with it if it makes you happy? Beware of STDs... well you might have one already.

You don't love him. Otherwise you wouldn't be looking for satisfaction outside of the relationship. Just leave him then you can have all the no strings attached sex you want, guilt free!

Even though your probably just one of those chicks that doesn't want to be alone, so you stay with the ONE guy who's willing to actually keep you as his GF, while fishing for other prospects in the meantime, all while trying to justify your actions.

How does it feel to be the type of girl that makes guys become players in the first place?

Contrary to popular belief, I don't think you're a slut. I think that in a certain area of your relationship something is missing. Talk him about it and try to spice things up. Otherwise, he won't trust you anymore and you'll lose him.

Should he trust you? Are you trustworthy? No.

Should you tell him? No, go ahead and build a relationship on a lie. You will always know that deceit was the foundation of your marriage, and it will give you warm feelings of comfort and satisfaction.

Divorce lawyers make a fortune off of people like you.

Well first it does not surprise me that he is jealous and doesn't trust you considering you HAVE cheated. It would be natural for him to be mad about that. Your relationship needs some serious work. I would recommend not telling him about the friend until you guys are on more solid ground, and when you have for sure put ALL of your cheating tendencies behind you, but you should tell him eventually. You guys both need to work on faithfulness and trust. If you really love him you will be committed to him and only him no matter what. Do not become accusing or paranoid, but whether he is also cheating would be something to find out somehow. Don't get married without counseling. If you cannot work through the problems and mature and establish trust then your relationship will not last.. or will cause more pain than it is worth. Good luck.

I think U should tell him. If U guys have plans in getting married some day then U should tell him now. I'm sure he's gonna be pissed the fuck off but atleast Ur being open and honest.
Start on a new clean slate before U end up married and then U end up telling him then..... It won't be nice.

**Good Luck :)**

Break up, u are a mess, don't ruin his life too.

Don't marry him. Infidelity is a symptom of something else is wrong. And if he's the crazy jealous type then it's a mistake. Just don't do it

Before you marry him, you need to stop one thing.. And start another.

Stop cheating. It's useless.

And:

Start using punctuation FFS. It was invented for a reason.

in a more basic sense, i think it is normal. but i think if you're going to keep having sex and talk dirty, you should not expect to marry your boyfriend. Leave him because it is really selfish for you to keep doing this. you need to figure out which you like better--your man or your flings.

Taking a 4 year old to your sessions isn't a good idea. What's the point in that? Don't tell him, u will only hurt him just make sure u don't do it again! Think about how u would feel if he told u, live with it and move on

Gidget ur fuckin cool but ford ur a prick

If ur both cheaters then u deserve each other. What is the point of cheating? If u truely love someone u wouldn't even think of cheating. If u feel like u just gota have sex with someone else, do the decent thing & end ur relationship first. Why do that to someone? Everyone knows that if they were cheated on they'd b pissed & hurt even if they try to say they aren't, so why do it to the person u supposedly love? If you aren't getting sex from ur partner u need to have a talk. Cheating is BS

the base of your relationship (where you both cheated) isn't a good start, but maybe with couples counseling, you two can get on the right path, and move forward together.

don't confess, at least right now. maybe this is something you will have to live with forever. no point hurting him again, esp. since he is so insecure anyway.

thank u all for your advice and the nympho comment wasnt necessary but any ways i am not too sure if i am going to tell him or not we are starting couples counseling and i was wondering if i should tell him there

Wow, u must be a nympho

If ur cheating then u need to reassess ur relationship. If u love him y would u put him thru that? It's unfair and cruel. I think u should tel him so u don't feel guilty, so he knows, and in case u do get married it will only be harder to tel him

Not normal. Forgive youreself and be understanding of what ur boyfriend may feel like. but do what youre conscience tells you

dont tell him. forget all about wat happen wit this friend and never do it again.

You are with the wrong person. If you are having these encounters it means something is lacking in your relationship. If he is accusing you of cheating, he is probably cheating too.

Your doomed, good luck with years of pain and guilt! ROFL.

My honest opinion is that if you really loved him you wouldn't have cheated on him in the first place and if he really loved you he wouldn't have cheated on you . A REAL WOMAN is just for one guy only

Once a slut always a slut

Don't tell him. Just forget about it