I care so much is it normal

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i have a friend who i met in high school we happened to click and became friends have reached a time were i care a lot about her. of recent she asked me me i ever thought of doing something stupid with her and i ignored the question. later she asked me if i had feelings for her and when i said, yes i do, she told me to stop it for she has a boyfriend. however the way we interact is so close that i cant do away with it she calls me to join her for supper at her place and i find it so interesting this leaves me in a situation of not being sure whether she likes me or not and i fear to ask her coz she told me to stop thinking a bout her pliz someone help coz im in love and i dont want to do away with her. Is it normal that i like her so much?

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    If she knows you care about her then she should change her way of acting toward you...otherwise she is knowingly leading you on. You CAN'T just stop your feelings..she knows that.

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  • bronte_91
    13 years ago

    She may well have feelings for you but remember, she is in a relationship with someone else so she would probably feel obliged to be loyal to her current boyfriend. As hard as it is, it's probably a good idea to not interfere with her relationship because that could jeopardize your friendship with her. Just try your best to remain a supportive friend and hopefully, she will come to realize that she has feelings for you. Good luck, I know this is tricky!

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  • L3xrayz
    7 years ago

    Okay I'll give you a few different points.
    1. You don't have to give up your feelings for her, but maybe just keep them on a downlow.
    2. If she has a boyfriend and your trying to get in on that, stop it. Especially if she asks you. Like the previous pointer just wait until something happens.
    3. Don't jump at an opportunity to get in on it.
    Best friend crushes are probably the hardest to obtain since you were already in the friend-zone to begin with, buttttttt
    if/when she breaks up with her current boyfriend, don't make advances on her immediately. Take it slow, if she doesn't seem interested, or better yet isn't at all in anyone, you can start slowly. It's completely normal to have a crush on your best friend/friend, and just let it know that if you get to be her boyfriend, and she wants to take-a-break (break-zoned) or just break up with you (also break-zoned) then just let it happen. And if she isn't interested with you, wipe away those crystal tears, and move on.

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