I cant think for myself sometimes. iin?

Sometimes when i see people being creative,funny or just talking. i'm just like hey, why didnt i think of that so that i could be having a good time or being funny.Is that selfish, am i being a selfish person?Am i overthinking things?

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  • Caps90

    No your not being selfish. You just need to learn to notice the good creative things that you do and be proud of them! It is almost always easier to notice someone elses creativity than your own.

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  • strwbrydnish

    You aren't selfish, but you are being incredibly self conscious. You lust after a type of approval to feel normal by saying things interesting to gain approval/attention. Wanting to fit in is incredibly normal. Ha ha. Anyways find your strengths, and highlight them as a person. Meaning own that shit and don't be ashamed/embarrassed, and the interesting conversation will flow from that.

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  • hdth

    its normal, your not being selfish, you may be overthinking things. just accept the way you are

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  • randomjelly

    ^ great comment.

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