I cant make my mind up about anything ever in my life

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I have very extreme issues with indecisiveness no joke I absolutely cannot make my mind up about anything ever and when I do have soon changed my mind and it goes back and forth like that. I feel I dont know anything like when I try to figure out what I want I cant because there is nothing I feel nothing until possibly ive made the wrong decision then I realize because I suddenly start crying with no warning and im like oohh okay... I dont know why im like this I just dont feel much most of the time, or I do but its like I dont have 'access' to it and I guess im not used to making my own decisions either and im always thinking how it will affect someone else just being scared to disappoint and not trusting myself not to especially my mom so often I call her when I have a decision to make and just really upset like please I need help what is the right decision?. Its not normal obviously but like does anyone relate?I find it increasingly difficult to live with this problem

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  • Tinybird
    2 years ago

    same, like I'll "feel sorry" for whatever decision I don't pick

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  • DADNSCAL
    2 years ago

    Try making a pros/cons list. A counselor told me this once and it helps tremendously. After a while, you’ll do it in your head, and most decisions come easily.

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