I cannot weep !

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I cannot Weep easily.. Infact , i have wept only 3 or 4 times in the last few years. I am a very sensitive and emotional person. These past few years i am feeling very depressed but somehow i can't bring out the tears.I feel if i cry,others will notice and i do fear that thing as i think men are not supposed to weep (and that too publicly) PLUS i don't like my face when i am weeping. What say guyz?

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  • Gidget
    13 years ago

    Girls do not dig it so not hot when a guy cries but so girls have 9 tear ducts and boys have only 2 meaning girls should cry 7 x as much a a boy so yea its ok if u dnt cry but if it really bothers u talk to someone and think about every sad thing u can then let it out

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  • soulflyer9
    14 years ago

    I once read this book that talked about why men can't show there feelings. not WONT; CAN'T. men in general are taught from a very young age by everyone from their friends to their family that showing emotion will do everything from getting beat harder to unwanted looks of concern. this is not your fault, this is just the way of life. do what other emotional guys do. sit in a dark room, let it out, clean yourself up and move on. its just the way it is.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Cry on your own time or with a girl. Girls dig it. <.<

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  • nothing2
    14 years ago

    i would'nt do it

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  • hallo101
    14 years ago

    mabey deep inside you dont want to weep cuz you want to keep ur image to b manly, if ur a girl. then i dunno

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  • asa751
    15 years ago

    Hi , I think that we all have to weep at times of distress or sorrow , but remember pal, that crying is beneficial for wiping away bacteria or dirt from your eye . Anyway, you have to be flexible, only cry when when you have to .

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  • itwilldestroy
    15 years ago

    i dont cry either, im male, somtimes i think i should, it woudl be a relief at times...
    they just dont come.
    ive built a bottle and now its stuck there..

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  • biblebashingtreehugger
    15 years ago

    its not uncommen for people to nto want to be seen as vunrable, think positively and ignore comments like the one made by Super_zomgz(17955) because you cant change part of who you are, it does not matter if you are unable to cry physically and you shouldnt worry about it

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  • super_zomgz
    15 years ago

    stop being an emotional bitch and talk to girls or smoke weed. Do something instead of being an emotional bitch.

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    • teehee
      15 years ago

      what u jst said is pathetic, ur meant to be helpin not dissin.

      take Chandler from Friends, he doesnt cry either. i think ur problem is quite normal... dnt worry about it.. you'll cry when u need to.

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    • niicocofosho
      14 years ago

      are you promoting drugs, really?

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    • Ernest
      15 years ago

      How insightful, dickhead.

      Ive got a friend who can't cry, or rather that she doesn't, so it cant be that strange.

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