You seriously love her? I'm a woman, & I'll tell you how to do it. Your homework:
Watch a ton of romantic comedies, & you will notice one recurring thing- OVER THE TOP behavior wins them over. Embarrassing, romantic, sweet, bold acts of love. [Watch womens' reaction to those movies]. Why does this corny crap seem to work?
BECAUSE WOMEN WANT ROMANCE!!! We LOVE love! In this cynical, dishonest world, there is no respect & so little sincere love... & we long for it.
Literally, watch about a dozen of those kinds of movies- after you re-establish a friendship [so she knows you are not a stalker], show up when and where you know she'll be- with flowers, tickets to a movie, or have her arrive at work to find 50 balloons. Pay attention to little things she loves and send them to her [inexpensive chocolate is OK- we'd look forward to a candy bar a week!] Mail her cards, declare your love-- loud and often. Notes are good.
This guy- who was SO not my type- showed up all over town w/ iced coffees for me, paid to get on a ferry to bring me fresh strawberries at work, bought me the newspaper every day because he knew my co- workers always took it. Climbed a HUGE hill to pick me a handful of berries because I'd noticed and mentioned them. Told me, "I want to be your partner in life", then another time, "I want to build a future with you." So much more. I fell in love w/ him... he flaked out- stress in his life from other things- I am finally over it.
~~sigh~~
and when the time comes, don't stick a ring in anything. Risky and impractical. But DO get down on one knee... DON'T do it SO publicly [stadium screen] that you will be humiliated if she says no, she will hate you for making her look like a bitch in public. Very public is OK if you KNOW she'll accept.
good luck- persistence wins over everything- how do you think those control freak abusers get ppl to marry them? They don't give up until they win.
I cannot get over this romantic love story i had almost 5 yrs ago...
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You seriously love her? I'm a woman, & I'll tell you how to do it. Your homework:
Watch a ton of romantic comedies, & you will notice one recurring thing- OVER THE TOP behavior wins them over. Embarrassing, romantic, sweet, bold acts of love. [Watch womens' reaction to those movies]. Why does this corny crap seem to work?
BECAUSE WOMEN WANT ROMANCE!!! We LOVE love! In this cynical, dishonest world, there is no respect & so little sincere love... & we long for it.
Literally, watch about a dozen of those kinds of movies- after you re-establish a friendship [so she knows you are not a stalker], show up when and where you know she'll be- with flowers, tickets to a movie, or have her arrive at work to find 50 balloons. Pay attention to little things she loves and send them to her [inexpensive chocolate is OK- we'd look forward to a candy bar a week!] Mail her cards, declare your love-- loud and often. Notes are good.
This guy- who was SO not my type- showed up all over town w/ iced coffees for me, paid to get on a ferry to bring me fresh strawberries at work, bought me the newspaper every day because he knew my co- workers always took it. Climbed a HUGE hill to pick me a handful of berries because I'd noticed and mentioned them. Told me, "I want to be your partner in life", then another time, "I want to build a future with you." So much more. I fell in love w/ him... he flaked out- stress in his life from other things- I am finally over it.
~~sigh~~
and when the time comes, don't stick a ring in anything. Risky and impractical. But DO get down on one knee... DON'T do it SO publicly [stadium screen] that you will be humiliated if she says no, she will hate you for making her look like a bitch in public. Very public is OK if you KNOW she'll accept.
good luck- persistence wins over everything- how do you think those control freak abusers get ppl to marry them? They don't give up until they win.