At the time I started feeling this way I barely even knew about stuff like sexually "fluid" people.
I don't even believe in the excessive amount of identities they've created like "demisexual".
If I was desperate to follow the herd I would be INSISTING I was gay. I'm honestly just confused right now and trying to explore so I can understand what I like.
Sexual attraction isn't rigid, actually. It's built on tolerances; as in whether you like manly or feminine and how far you're capable of deviating from either side. Attraction is by birth(or puberty, more accurately) but tolerances can be created. You can come to like nearly anything. So yes, attraction is indeed fluid, to a degree. Whether you actually want a relationship with the same sex or not would probably be a better indicator of whether you should actually try widening your sexual tolerances than liking how women look.
That's kind of what I mean tho. People never used to have to "explore". They were either gay or they weren't. Sure people experimented but now it's as if it's a prerequisite to try out gay.
If the idea of being sexual and romantically intmate with a woman turns you on and being with a man doesn't, then you are gay. If both sexes do, you're bi. If you just find women beautiful but don't want physical contact you're a straight woman. I think most straight woman find other women beautiful to look at.
Honestly ask yourself these questions and you'll have your answer. You probably already know what the answer is deep down but if you have to go through the confusion then I guess that's what you have to do. Best of luck.
I can't tell if I'm admiring other women or I'm attracted to them..
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At the time I started feeling this way I barely even knew about stuff like sexually "fluid" people.
I don't even believe in the excessive amount of identities they've created like "demisexual".
If I was desperate to follow the herd I would be INSISTING I was gay. I'm honestly just confused right now and trying to explore so I can understand what I like.
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Sexual attraction isn't rigid, actually. It's built on tolerances; as in whether you like manly or feminine and how far you're capable of deviating from either side. Attraction is by birth(or puberty, more accurately) but tolerances can be created. You can come to like nearly anything. So yes, attraction is indeed fluid, to a degree. Whether you actually want a relationship with the same sex or not would probably be a better indicator of whether you should actually try widening your sexual tolerances than liking how women look.
That's kind of what I mean tho. People never used to have to "explore". They were either gay or they weren't. Sure people experimented but now it's as if it's a prerequisite to try out gay.
If the idea of being sexual and romantically intmate with a woman turns you on and being with a man doesn't, then you are gay. If both sexes do, you're bi. If you just find women beautiful but don't want physical contact you're a straight woman. I think most straight woman find other women beautiful to look at.
Honestly ask yourself these questions and you'll have your answer. You probably already know what the answer is deep down but if you have to go through the confusion then I guess that's what you have to do. Best of luck.