You're feelings aren't out of nowhere. You've been brainwashed into thinking you are gay by the liberal media and educational system
In the past 5 years (longer really) the idea that everyone is gender and sexually "fluid" has been shoved down our throats and a stigma has been attached to being straight.
You are following the heard and desperately trying to be part of this movement to either feel cool or fit in.
Seriously does the idea of eating pussy turn you on? If not you arent gay. It's pretty basic really.
At the time I started feeling this way I barely even knew about stuff like sexually "fluid" people.
I don't even believe in the excessive amount of identities they've created like "demisexual".
If I was desperate to follow the herd I would be INSISTING I was gay. I'm honestly just confused right now and trying to explore so I can understand what I like.
Sexual attraction isn't rigid, actually. It's built on tolerances; as in whether you like manly or feminine and how far you're capable of deviating from either side. Attraction is by birth(or puberty, more accurately) but tolerances can be created. You can come to like nearly anything. So yes, attraction is indeed fluid, to a degree. Whether you actually want a relationship with the same sex or not would probably be a better indicator of whether you should actually try widening your sexual tolerances than liking how women look.
That's kind of what I mean tho. People never used to have to "explore". They were either gay or they weren't. Sure people experimented but now it's as if it's a prerequisite to try out gay.
If the idea of being sexual and romantically intmate with a woman turns you on and being with a man doesn't, then you are gay. If both sexes do, you're bi. If you just find women beautiful but don't want physical contact you're a straight woman. I think most straight woman find other women beautiful to look at.
Honestly ask yourself these questions and you'll have your answer. You probably already know what the answer is deep down but if you have to go through the confusion then I guess that's what you have to do. Best of luck.
No it actually is that simple. Being gay is about who you have sex with. It's not about close relationships its about sexual attraction. Stop trying to confuse people.
I notice you offer no competing argument in your response or tell me why I am wrong other than an ad hominem attack on my maleness.
No actually it isn't that simple. Women aren't thinking with their vaginas pal unlike majority of men these days. Obviously yes, being a lesbian involves having a sexual relationship but it it NOT just about eating pussy. That's why I say, that's a typical man's response. Women in general, are far more attracted by an emotional connection. It's about having a close relationship as well as attraction/ a connection. I don't see the point in explaining myself which is why I didn't elaborate because I knew you wouldn't understand anyway.
I understand relationships arent all sex. I also understand that defining ones sexual orientation IS about who you prefer to have sex with, regardless of if you do the act or not.
I haven't had sex in 8 years and sex doesn't drive me. I am not, however "asexual" because of that. I am hetero or straight because I'm only sexually attracted to women. Contrary to your skewed belief I do not think with my dick.
I'm sorry you hate men and I'm sorry you are overwhelmingly hung up on my eat pussy remark, irregradless of how much weight I put on it when i made that comment. Continue to ignore what I say because of it tho. That does a lot of good.
Btw. I have a sister. I know exactly how women think about sex and how they talk to each other when they don't think males are around. Women think about sex just as much as men do, stop kidding youself.
I agree with you that women think about sex as often than men, but please don't say you know exactly how women think about sex. You aren't a women so you will never be able to know everything we think about, just like I (for example) will never know everything a man is thinking about.
I can't tell if I'm admiring other women or I'm attracted to them..
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You're feelings aren't out of nowhere. You've been brainwashed into thinking you are gay by the liberal media and educational system
In the past 5 years (longer really) the idea that everyone is gender and sexually "fluid" has been shoved down our throats and a stigma has been attached to being straight.
You are following the heard and desperately trying to be part of this movement to either feel cool or fit in.
Seriously does the idea of eating pussy turn you on? If not you arent gay. It's pretty basic really.
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At the time I started feeling this way I barely even knew about stuff like sexually "fluid" people.
I don't even believe in the excessive amount of identities they've created like "demisexual".
If I was desperate to follow the herd I would be INSISTING I was gay. I'm honestly just confused right now and trying to explore so I can understand what I like.
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Sexual attraction isn't rigid, actually. It's built on tolerances; as in whether you like manly or feminine and how far you're capable of deviating from either side. Attraction is by birth(or puberty, more accurately) but tolerances can be created. You can come to like nearly anything. So yes, attraction is indeed fluid, to a degree. Whether you actually want a relationship with the same sex or not would probably be a better indicator of whether you should actually try widening your sexual tolerances than liking how women look.
That's kind of what I mean tho. People never used to have to "explore". They were either gay or they weren't. Sure people experimented but now it's as if it's a prerequisite to try out gay.
If the idea of being sexual and romantically intmate with a woman turns you on and being with a man doesn't, then you are gay. If both sexes do, you're bi. If you just find women beautiful but don't want physical contact you're a straight woman. I think most straight woman find other women beautiful to look at.
Honestly ask yourself these questions and you'll have your answer. You probably already know what the answer is deep down but if you have to go through the confusion then I guess that's what you have to do. Best of luck.
It's not simply black and white. It's not just about "eating pussy" that is such a typical guys response.
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No it actually is that simple. Being gay is about who you have sex with. It's not about close relationships its about sexual attraction. Stop trying to confuse people.
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No actually it isn't that simple. Women aren't thinking with their vaginas pal unlike majority of men these days. Obviously yes, being a lesbian involves having a sexual relationship but it it NOT just about eating pussy. That's why I say, that's a typical man's response. Women in general, are far more attracted by an emotional connection. It's about having a close relationship as well as attraction/ a connection. I don't see the point in explaining myself which is why I didn't elaborate because I knew you wouldn't understand anyway.
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I understand relationships arent all sex. I also understand that defining ones sexual orientation IS about who you prefer to have sex with, regardless of if you do the act or not.
I haven't had sex in 8 years and sex doesn't drive me. I am not, however "asexual" because of that. I am hetero or straight because I'm only sexually attracted to women. Contrary to your skewed belief I do not think with my dick.
I'm sorry you hate men and I'm sorry you are overwhelmingly hung up on my eat pussy remark, irregradless of how much weight I put on it when i made that comment. Continue to ignore what I say because of it tho. That does a lot of good.
Btw. I have a sister. I know exactly how women think about sex and how they talk to each other when they don't think males are around. Women think about sex just as much as men do, stop kidding youself.
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I agree with you that women think about sex as often than men, but please don't say you know exactly how women think about sex. You aren't a women so you will never be able to know everything we think about, just like I (for example) will never know everything a man is thinking about.
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Ok fair point. It's a figure of speech. I don't know what anyone else actually thinks about anything, men and women alike. No one does.
I should say genitals instead of vagina lol