I can't talk about sex with friends

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On ocassion when I'm with the people I hang out at college with they notice an attractive girl walking by and say things about them, like that they would have sex with them, etc. Then they turn to me and ask me what I think, and I usually get embarrased and shy away from it, wanting to change the subject. It's not like i'm asexual or gay, or anything. I do think about things I'd do to someone I see that I find appealing, but I don't like to share them with company. Perhaps it's because of my sexual inexperience. The guys I hang out with are older than me by a few years, so they seem more open about their sexual preferences, and yet at the same time their laid back attitude to the whole thing seems immature to me.

I don't know, is there something wrong with me? Am I a prude for not being frank with orhers about sex?

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  • sweetheartsrevenge
    10 years ago | pl

    Your definitely normal I admire guys like that

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  • kapiko
    10 years ago | pl

    Yeah I'm like you. I like to keep my personal life under wraps. A lot of my friends love to talk about sex and are always wondering about me.

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  • Unimportant
    10 years ago | pl

    I don't like to talk about sex either. Pretty sure it's normal.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago | pl

    So you don't fuck and tell no problems dude.

    They are probably just baiting you so they can rip you.

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  • kinkyjesus
    10 years ago | pl

    Yeah it's pretty normal.

    I;ve always thought it's pretty tacky when people discuss their sex lives with people who are not involved in them.

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  • Tinybird
    7 years ago | pl

    Is it ironic that the number of votes is 69?

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  • stupidassholeguy
    10 years ago | pl

    This is America, be open about it. Just go with it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago | pl

      I am Australian

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    • Francophile22
      10 years ago | pl

      Why? the world is too vulgar and co-dependent. Why does anyone have the right to know about what my intimate thoughts are??

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  • Legion
    10 years ago | pl

    Im like this. A lot of my friends have had several girls or one whis really good, but I have trouble talking to women sometimes, especially trying to ask them out. its embarrassing.

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  • crazie
    10 years ago | pl

    i think its totally normal , some people may not be comfertable with talking about these things to people and some peole are

    it just that you have a different type of personality from your friends whuich is fine too

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  • danny79
    10 years ago | pl

    i dont't see the problem, just say "Ye i'd fuck her" ???

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