I'm so sorry your childhood was unhappy. Parents sometimes forget they have such an impact on their children until they grow up themselves and then it seems too late.
I think if you could forgive your mom you would feel alot better. I don't expect you to all the sudden be the best of friends
With her or her side of the family but let them into your life and see how it goes. Just remember your in control of the situation now not your Mom. You can shut her out again if she does you wrong.
I can't stand my family
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I'm so sorry your childhood was unhappy. Parents sometimes forget they have such an impact on their children until they grow up themselves and then it seems too late.
I think if you could forgive your mom you would feel alot better. I don't expect you to all the sudden be the best of friends
With her or her side of the family but let them into your life and see how it goes. Just remember your in control of the situation now not your Mom. You can shut her out again if she does you wrong.