I can't put my fingers in 😪

If it really hurts that much I would go to a gynecologist or an obgyn. Be honest with your mom and say "I want to go to the doctor, it hurts too much when I stick a finger inside myself."

She probably masterbated just as much as you do, she could have had the same problem too.

Keep this in mind when you get into a sexual relationship. Be very honest with your partner if you're not ready. If you are, be generous with lube.

Heyys...uhm. Thank you To everyone who gave me advice without acting shitty because in all honesty, I needed every answer and now I know ❤️🦋so shout out to y'all and uhm

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Perhaps you have Vaginismus?

I remember when I first started, I couldn’t get a finger in. I used a small makeup brush handle for the longest time (wouldn’t recommend- something safer.) Now, I’m up to a 7inch dildo and wanting more. I thought there was something wrong with me, because it really hurt. I never pushed it to the point of hurting too much, thinking I might get checked out and fixed when I got older. But I got there without trying, slowly happened by itself.

Have you gently tried this with one finger rather than fingers? How many fingers are you trying to insert? Do you lubricate?

Also, many women (maybe most) are far more stimulated by giving attention to the external genitals, the labia and clitoris. It's not necessary for orgasm to have your vagina actually penetrated, especially if you're a virgin.

Personally, although I enjoy penetration with my male lover and have enjoyed finger penetration in the past with female lovers, my strongest orgasms when I'm by myself only very rarely involve penetration.

Keep trying, add some lube

How about your pinky? If it's still too much, maybe try finding something thinner to use. Hopefully, it will help.

who just sticks their fingers in their hole, arent you supposed to like put something over them or use something else? I wouldnt want my fingers to smell like cooch.

Maybe you got the wrong hole

You may have a thick hymen and /or need a hymenotomy. Yes, that is a thing.

Maybe you do it wrong, aren't wet enough or otherwise have a problem you might need to see a gynecologist for.