I can't keep an erection with a rubber

OK so when I have sex I am always safe and use a condom, but it becomes like this race of time to get it on before I go soft again, and then I feel like it's a race again to cum before I go soft. Is it like a mental thing? But I feel a time pressure whenever I start to rip open that wrapper. Any other guys feel this way? Or girls seen their partners deal with it?

Is It Normal?
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  • If you and your lady friend could include putting the condom on as part of the foreplay, it might help a lot. I think this is a very common problem and I'm surprised you've not had anybody tell you this before in sex ed class. I've never had a sex ed class (hell, sex was a 3 letter word when I went to school) and I've heard of it.

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  • Try opening the wrapper before you get hard so you can put it on quickly. And it happens more often than you think, condoms sucks, but are needed if the woman isnt on birth control.

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  • Try having her light some matches before and during sex it will keep you hard

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  • Trojan thintensity condoms

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  • just dont cum, if you feel something pull it out aye.

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  • The thicker the latex is the more problems.
    She also has to work with you indeed. 70% hard is enough to get it in. No rubber. It will get harder anyway. With condom it has to be hard rock.
    First time it is not such a big problems but a second or third time that night.

    Best solution is a cock-ring.

    It prevents the blood flowing back. Don't get the ring to big. An adjustable leather strap that goes around your balls is even better. Don't wear it more than 30 min. Really they are the bomb. Check the net for images and user guide. In case of budget problems throw in a few extra dollars. As you have to search for one suitable. Worth it as you need less condoms used but not filled to end up in garbage disposal

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    • I've tried cock rings, I find them just painful and makes it worse for me. I have tried different sizes too, none of them worked for me.

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