Hard to say precisely, I think partly at least it's due to previous sexual experiences that I've had, I was with a girl who just lay there when wed have sex and didn't seem to be enjoying or not enjoying it, later I found out she wasn't confident sexually and so kind of froze up when we tried. But it was like fucking a robot I didn't wanna bring it up because I didn't want to make her feel bad by saying that I thought she wasn't good in bed but she was like minimally responsive and I think it me me feel sexually useless and undesirable because I could never elicit any reaction out of her. I didn't know how not normal our sex life was until after because she was one of the first girls I did it with.
Have you considered there must be some deeper reason for her tension. Maybe she felt insecure or she had a bad sexual experience in the past, before you, that traumatized her
In that case you need to take things slowly. Start by finding a new girlfriend, don’t worry about the sex stuff. If you treat her nice and don’t want to jump into bed with her in the first 10 minutes she isn’t going to run away. Find your comfort zone with her without having sex to start with. Then as you get to know her better and when you are feeling good around her then take that next step. When the time does come start with plenty of foreplay. Massage her body, play with her nipples, lots of kissing and attention, use your hands on her to stimulate her, then when she is nice and wet and feeling totally into the moment you can take it from there.
I can't imagine being desired in bed
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Hard to say precisely, I think partly at least it's due to previous sexual experiences that I've had, I was with a girl who just lay there when wed have sex and didn't seem to be enjoying or not enjoying it, later I found out she wasn't confident sexually and so kind of froze up when we tried. But it was like fucking a robot I didn't wanna bring it up because I didn't want to make her feel bad by saying that I thought she wasn't good in bed but she was like minimally responsive and I think it me me feel sexually useless and undesirable because I could never elicit any reaction out of her. I didn't know how not normal our sex life was until after because she was one of the first girls I did it with.
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Have you considered there must be some deeper reason for her tension. Maybe she felt insecure or she had a bad sexual experience in the past, before you, that traumatized her
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It's quite possible.
In that case you need to take things slowly. Start by finding a new girlfriend, don’t worry about the sex stuff. If you treat her nice and don’t want to jump into bed with her in the first 10 minutes she isn’t going to run away. Find your comfort zone with her without having sex to start with. Then as you get to know her better and when you are feeling good around her then take that next step. When the time does come start with plenty of foreplay. Massage her body, play with her nipples, lots of kissing and attention, use your hands on her to stimulate her, then when she is nice and wet and feeling totally into the moment you can take it from there.
If she didn't seem to be enjoying herself you should have just stopped.