I can't get over my gf's "web cheating."

first of all, sorry that this is long but i would read this if i were you. and i would like to add, that i'm a really jealous person who gets jealous even when her boufriend watches porn or says something nice about a girl. look, i wouldnt be that hard on your girlfriend. what she did was wrong alright, but it doesnt mean that she doesnt love you or believe in monogamy. i did the same thing with my ex boyfriend. i was with him and i loved him, but i was also talking to a married guy who lived very very far away -on another continent- and we were trading naked pics. i was thinking about him all the time and we kept doing this for a year. we were speaking with each other so often that it caused problems between him and his wife, who was actually kinda okay with physically cheating.i thought i got emotionally attached to him, but then we had a fight and we stopped talking. and suddenly i stopped thinking about him at all. it was like he never existed. i think it was because i was a little bit bored of my relationship and wanted something sexually different and it didnt feel like cheating at all. this happened 2 years ago and this year he added me on facebook and i thought of doing the same thing with him, but not because i was so into it, but because i was wondering what happened in his life and if he would still find me attractive. and because 2 years ago was a good time in my life and i wanted to feel like i used to feel back then for a second. and we talked for like 2-3 days and i didnt see him online on facebook again, and if it wasn't for your post, i wouldnt have remembered him. i'm saying again, it doesnt mean she doesnt love you, she may be going through a confusing phase, she may be just curious if he would find her attractive again etc etc. it's not cheating if she feels sorry about what she did. i really think you should overcome this for your relationship because you seem to care about this girl. that is just some internet guy.