Thanks for the compliment.
I'm just older and have a little more life experience, that's all. I think if I were compared to someone my own age or older, I wouldn't seem very wise at all.
Your situation is difficult, but just give it your best try (ignoring him). Maybe you could also try to focus on his shortcomings; everyone has them but, when we like someone, we dismiss those idiosyncrasies as irrelevant. If he were your enemy, those flaws would be all that you noticed about him. So, the more you notice those flaws, the less you will want to be with him.
Don't allow yourself to compare him to your current boyfriend and see if it helps improve your relationship. If not, it would be kind to cut your boyfriend loose until you're feeling more into it.
Ill try my hardest to ignore. May be difficult cause im paired with him in a project but ill try to keep it strictly school related topics and no joking around like we usually do.
And not comparing them is difficult too. I feel bad but I sometimes wish my boyfriend was more like the other guy in certain aspects. But I wont try to compare them anymore. Hopefully itll help the relationship.
I also feel bad cause ive been sorta ignoring my boyfriend while I try to work out all my feelings and thoughts.
I CAN'T GET OVER HIM... IIN?
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Thanks for the compliment.
I'm just older and have a little more life experience, that's all. I think if I were compared to someone my own age or older, I wouldn't seem very wise at all.
Your situation is difficult, but just give it your best try (ignoring him). Maybe you could also try to focus on his shortcomings; everyone has them but, when we like someone, we dismiss those idiosyncrasies as irrelevant. If he were your enemy, those flaws would be all that you noticed about him. So, the more you notice those flaws, the less you will want to be with him.
Don't allow yourself to compare him to your current boyfriend and see if it helps improve your relationship. If not, it would be kind to cut your boyfriend loose until you're feeling more into it.
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Ill try my hardest to ignore. May be difficult cause im paired with him in a project but ill try to keep it strictly school related topics and no joking around like we usually do.
And not comparing them is difficult too. I feel bad but I sometimes wish my boyfriend was more like the other guy in certain aspects. But I wont try to compare them anymore. Hopefully itll help the relationship.
I also feel bad cause ive been sorta ignoring my boyfriend while I try to work out all my feelings and thoughts.