I can't find a girlfriend no matter how hard i try
I've tried basically everything that one possibly can. I've tried at school, online, at the pub, speed-dating, etc. No matter how hard I try, I just can't seem to find a girlfriend. :(
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I've tried basically everything that one possibly can. I've tried at school, online, at the pub, speed-dating, etc. No matter how hard I try, I just can't seem to find a girlfriend. :(
If you're trying so hard you likely come off as desperate and clingy. That's a major turn off. Have you tried online dating? I don't know where you live but that can be an efficient way to meet single women.
I'm trying online dating right now. I'm on multiple sites and nobody seem to like me. :(
Don't make all your pictures just of you, you want pictures with groups and hopefully women included in them to show you're not a loner weirdo.
Have atleast one close up with no sunglasses and smiling so they can see your eyes and that you have all your teeth and actually can see what you look like. It's funny I match with roughly 75% of chicks I swipe right on since I updated my pictures. They're all me with attractive women (ex's and female friends) at fun places like the beach and outdoor concerts. Before when they were selfies and pics with bros I was matching maybe 10% of the time. Women have a lot more to risk meeting someone online so its best to look as least like a potential rapist or murderer as possible.
"school, online, at the pub, speed-dating"
uhhh?
there's your problem..don't you have any hobbies that aren't depressing?
Well one thing that has worked for me as an example. I took a 5 hour photography course once. There was a woman there I really liked. At the end of the course I handed her a piece of paper with my name and number on it. It's a great way to meet quality people, and have something in common right of the bat. She called me a week later, we dated for two years after that.
If you have interests find a way to combine them with other people.
Do you mean that the girls standing on the street corner won't be your girlfriend for $200.00? Go figure.
Stop looking.
Go with the flow.
You know when you're looking for something but only find it once you give up?
You get the idea.
Just focus on personal growth or something more productive in your spare time.
It's not like the world is going to run out of girls soon.
STOP TRYING SO HARD. If you are really anxious about something, at least for me, it seems I get all excited about a date or even an event of some sort it seems to go to shit. If I just go about my day and not get all excited and worked up about things, it seems to go better. Just be yourself, don't try to be "thug,cool,or anything out of your normal human with feelings for others and emotions" that can spike up or down depending on situation. It's a sad thing that so many people put their focus on the materialistic aspect, the kind of car, motorcycle, skateboard, etc. And if your clothes are the latest or 2nd hand. If they are more worried about the label in your clothes or the kind of car, then avoidbthem. They only want material things.
Are you one of those 6s always trying to date 9s and 10s?
Maybe you should be realistic about who you approach (if that's the problem)
Other than that, are you boring? Make sure you have hobbies and interests so you have something worthwhile to talk about or things you can bond with the person over.
Stop trying to date and start playing Skyrim.
Grind for that Level 80 man.
Then give up and live a productive life without the baggage that comes with companionship.
Ease-up and stop trying so hard. Your best bet is eventually dating a good girl friend.