I can't cum

Ok, so I am 18 years old. I have had sex atleast 80 times and I have never came. I don't know why. Every guy I have been does all the proper things. Inctercourse(oral/rubbing) and sex. We always switch positions. Even when i'm alone and maturbating I don't cum. Maybe it's because he lasts only 5-10 mins? Other than that I don't know why I can't cum and it is very frusterating.

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  • Try the hitachi. For real.

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  • justsomgirl

    Ha! Me again. I just reread your question and figured out where I went wrong. I read your description of "the right things" as four different points the first time. When I reread, I see that you were clarifying the first part and adding sex as a second. Now that I get that, I completely take back my mature comment and would like to replace it with, I'm a moron. All me. Sorry again.

    (one last thought though....most women can't climax from sex alone. Climaxing generally comes from clitoral stimulation. Perhaps tell Jim to focus a li

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  • justsomgirl

    Omg, I clearly can't read. You said your age right in the question. I'm so sorry. We see so many sex posts by teenagers, that I suppose I just made an assumption and read it all wrong. I do apologize.

    So now, that being said...18 is still pretty young when it comes to sex and knowing how to do "the right things". They may be doing them....but it's possible they are not doing them well.

    By 18, I would think that you should have been able to climax at least on your own. Perhaps try buying a vibrator and see I. That does it for you. If not, as embarrassing as it may seem, you might need to speak to your gynecologist.

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  • justsomgirl

    I'm sorry...but you sound very young. Your description of "the right things" just doesn't add up to a mature person (not mature ad in mental status...mature as in sexually mature).

    As a very young person, it would not be uncommon to not be able to climax. This may also indicate that you are far too young to be having sex.

    The fact that you've done so at least 80 times either means I'm way off base on the age thing....or if I am not, that's very concerning.

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  • missmeow

    You don't even come when you masturbate? Wtf

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  • AverageJoey

    80 times? I'm not going to try to seriously answer, because it won't be productive...

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