I can't cum

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i can't cum? tried with my bf too many times and i'm getting worried this may not be normal... i can cum but only if i rub my vagina? and i find it strange does any other female do that? and it is embaressing.... please help

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  • WayOutThere
    14 years ago

    Chances are your boyfriend isn't skilled enough to bring you to climax. He will have to learn, over time.

    A lot of girls do rub their clitoris, during sex, so that is perfectly normal. He should learn to be ok with that, if he isn't. Or he can rub it with his thumb, during sex. You need to tell him how much pressure to use, as he doesn't know.

    Over time, you can also learn to orgasm in other ways.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    You can cum when you masturbate. That's a baseline. And very normal. BF isn't hooked into your sexuality. Maybe he's selfish. Don't beat yourself up for that. Its not you. Maybe you can teach him to please you. Or maybe he won't learn. Just don't blame yourself. you are normal.

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