I can't be happy, i need someone to love. whats wrong with me?

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Everyday i go to school and see my friends and im pretty happy around them, but when i get home alone, i get really sad, some days at school im not very cheerful also. Being alone i can just sit there and think and i get really down, tears even come to my eyes.
The reason for this unhappiness i think is because i want to be with someone, i always feel alone, i am always searching for someone to be with. But my options are running out, i know im a really really good looking attractive guy, Ive been told many times. i have a great personality, im not much of a conversation starter, but im not shy really.
I cant be happy. I don't think I will ever be happy until i find someone. Is this normal? Is there a way to stop me feeling like this?

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  • Duane
    13 years ago | pl

    The desire/need to be with someone is normal. We all experience this to one degree or another throughout our lifetimes. A word of caution that I would give to you is: Don't allow this desire or need to become so overwhelming that you open yourself up to those who are seeking "fish" like you to net and claim as another victory for themselves and their kind. Beware. Be cautious. Be yourself. Those who feel as you do will present themselves in due time. Don't rush it.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    8 years ago | pl

    get a pet

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    • Ellenna
      8 years ago | pl

      That's a good suggestion, esp a dog he can walk, because that way he'll meet other dog owners and feel less isolated. Unconditional love from dogs is great for the ego too!

      Then he can graduate to trusting people

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  • jesusdiedlol
    11 years ago | pl

    Love*

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  • jesusdiedlol
    11 years ago | pl

    You have to learn to live yourselves. No complete, loving, and smart human being wants to be with someone miserable. If you don't love yourself no one will. You'll end up in unhealthy relationships. Just get some self help books or watch YouTube self help videos. :) hope you start being happy with yourself. It's a beautiful feeling and you'll eventually find someone who loves you for you

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  • karmasAbich
    11 years ago | pl

    Get a pie and a porno.
    Time to unleash the beast.

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  • KLynn2013
    12 years ago | pl

    Idk how to help bud, but. U explained the exact situation I'm having, except I'm a girl lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Get yourself out there and start dating for cripes sakes.

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  • KimmyKhaosXD
    13 years ago | pl

    yeah get a girlfriend this is completely normal.

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  • POWWOW
    13 years ago | pl

    yes i am just like that too !! but i have no friends at school. I cant trust anyone !! thats why maybe you should learn to be dependent on only yourself FIRST, and then begin to trust others, becuase its very likely they will fuck up and hurt you really bad, But if your already dependent on yourself FUCK THEM!!

    ..you can be my friend if you want ^_^

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  • Tesserman
    13 years ago | pl

    Oh man! This is the same thing with me! I have figured out that this type of thing is triggered by many factors. Its not that you need someone to love, thouh that would be a part soloution, it is really that you need someone to trust. Fort of all, a common misconsception with the term friend is that it is only some one you know. This is not true, that is an acuantaince. A friend is someone who extends beyond your school life, and one that you do things with. Of course this is the type of personal. Al lovewould be, but it needs to be someone who you can trust to tell them how you feel, but try not to make then depressed by it, do it little by little. Here I am rambling on, this is just what I have found out about my deal, which is much like this, and I
    Oft as well tell you all.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Look for better friends, dating, work or after-school activities. You are at loose ends with too much time on your hands & are just getting lonely way too much. You can do something about that.

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  • Justin_Case
    13 years ago | pl

    You may need to try develop friends
    who you can trust , If you are not happy
    You may be sad cause something at home
    is making you sad , Try making Jesus
    part of your life

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