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It ranges all over the map. I have been evaluating it over time and it seems I get excited more just because it is wrong. Is that normal?
You used a lot of words to say absolutely nothing. You must have a future in government or politics.
A lot of people are turned on by things that transgress the generally accepted norms. Something a lot of people don't realise is that people always have been excited by what's taboo, but it just wasn't openly discussed as it is today. For all you know, your great grandmother and grandfather were into BDSM, rough oral sex, sharing fantasies about sex with someone else, or piss-play.
As long as you're not talking about stuff that's non-consensual or physically or emotionally harmful to yourself or others, I see nothing wrong with that. A couple having a secret life that only the two of them share can be very good for bonding, and lots of people find it arousing to deliberately be a very bad boy or girl.
Ok let's buckle this down. Terri A. you do have a list of light taboo stuff and yes I am in to most on list. I find anything but kids and personal animal sex something I can work with.
I like the idea of costume animal sex existing but it doesn't turn me on sexually as a stand alone. The act of submission and admitting place as lower than par is what makes me admire from afar. Now the thought of true animals having sex intrigues me. Like to watch how the mate is seduced and has to bow to animal ruler when called. But I am very into dominance. It is important in my actions and surroundings and a backbone play to many many fantasy turn-ons. one should be complete ruler and another should completely submit. As far as kids, I'm leaving that alone as there is just nothing sexy about that, and seeing the long term aftermath devestation that it causes is a huge turn off, no interest in even trying to think about it. Too many other intriguing venues to need to stoop there.
I can turn anything into something major. You can give me a prompt, even 1 word, and I am thinking about how I can turn it into a fantasy. I love to role play with anyone, where we step out of comfort zone and do it with passion.
Like 50 shades, the way my life always should be, I do make sure to carry a level of respect for anyone else involved and I also try to incorporate what they may enjoy. I listen and am good at questions that will subtly clue me in to what they may be interested in. But I started off secretly having sex with my aunt's foot when I was 5, so I have had a lot of practice turning anything around me into a passionate scene for me.
As far as a plant, I wouldn't try to make it sexy to get me off. Something else will turn me on and I may use the soft leaves to caress me or, well I have a couple other ideas but you get my point.
We all are a little like that in ways. I bet one of you can plop an object or item out there for a prompt and several of you will come up with a way to use it. Let's just see how normal I am.
WTF are you trying not to say?
Gay stuff? So what.
Pedo? 90% photoshop.
Beasty? So what?
Anime? Pretty normal.
Plants?,, OK.
That's new.