I can’t have sex

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  • Talk about this with your boyfriend. Let him know you're worried it will hurt. If he loves you, he will go slow and listen to you.

    Arousal and anxiety are big factors - with opposite effects on how things go.

    Sex should not hurt, even the first time. "Tearing the hymen" and "virginity" are outdated and disgusting concepts created to control property. You are not property.

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