I came out to my sister but that "wasn't me". iin?
I am a 23yo male in South Africa.
So in my late teen age I had been involved in intimate but not penetrative sexual encouters with one guy, my friend, and about four and a half years after that, I began getting attracted to men and one other day I got really emotionally broken and ended up telling this problem I had to my sister (whom I very much confide in) and it sounded like I was "coming out"
During that time I was in University and nothing like that had ever happend to me before until those encounters that I somehow don't regret being involved in.
But two years later, now, I fell and still falling deeply in love with my ex girlfriend that I started the dating thing with her but she had broken up with me before and now we got back together again. I think she is in love with me too and we're both mature now.
The problem is that those feelings are now no more and I am seriously into girls now but my sister is the confused one now and I understand her confusion.
Is this Normal? why do I go through these "phases"?.