People achieve things without being attractive all the time, though. Of course it's a disadvantage, but it doesn't completely outweigh other qualities.
I never said it does. I never said that because she may be ugly that she won't achieve anything, I'd say I'm saying the oppposite, that instead of focusing on looks she should progress on something else that she can be better and progress at.
No, you weren't saying the opposite. "Beauty on the inside is only really worth something if you have beauty on the outside" doesn't mean "focus on your strengths instead of worrying about your looks". It means "being a good or competent person is worthless if you're not attractive". If you don't believe that, don't say it.
Yes, as in social wise, not proffesional wise. If you are going to tell me that the ugliest person in the world has the chance with a decent looking girl if he had the biggest heart, then I'd have to say you're wrong, same goes with men, they would do the same.
Relationship and social wise this was aimed at. I was saying, if you can't progress or do good in those ways such as looking good, being good on the inside isn't going to mean a lot to a lot of people if you don't have what's on the outside to get them interested first, so look for something that you could study and make use of your life on something you know you can do if you work hard enough.
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People achieve things without being attractive all the time, though. Of course it's a disadvantage, but it doesn't completely outweigh other qualities.
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I never said it does. I never said that because she may be ugly that she won't achieve anything, I'd say I'm saying the oppposite, that instead of focusing on looks she should progress on something else that she can be better and progress at.
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No, you weren't saying the opposite. "Beauty on the inside is only really worth something if you have beauty on the outside" doesn't mean "focus on your strengths instead of worrying about your looks". It means "being a good or competent person is worthless if you're not attractive". If you don't believe that, don't say it.
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Yes, as in social wise, not proffesional wise. If you are going to tell me that the ugliest person in the world has the chance with a decent looking girl if he had the biggest heart, then I'd have to say you're wrong, same goes with men, they would do the same.
Relationship and social wise this was aimed at. I was saying, if you can't progress or do good in those ways such as looking good, being good on the inside isn't going to mean a lot to a lot of people if you don't have what's on the outside to get them interested first, so look for something that you could study and make use of your life on something you know you can do if you work hard enough.