I blocked my toxic friend on everything

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I was best friends with this girl for about 10 years. She was always kinda toxic towards me.. whether it was because she was jealous or in a mood that day (or week). Anyways,for the past couple months I've distanced myself from her due to the way shes been acting and I guess she noticed bc she started saying stuff like "should I just take you off of social media?" And then she started ignoring me at work along with her friend Trev who used to be very close with me. Tonight I finally snapped and decided to block both of them on anything.

Did I make the right decision and would you do the same thing in this situation?

Btw I know I didnt go in depth on why she was super toxic but honestly I could type a novel about that subject lol.

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Based on 18 votes (16 yes)

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jethro

4 years ago

Yes. I would have done the same thing. Life is too short to deal with the drama from some people. You are better off without them.

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anonymous2345

4 years ago

is it normal that you blocked her? Sure! I wouldn't feel bad about it because it sounds like you feel much better after you blocked her; and she likely won't benefit from having someone in her life who doesn't want her there anyway.

So don't fret, in my opinion your actions are normal and likely in the best interest of both parties :)

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ellnell

4 years ago

I blocked a toxic ex of mine not too long ago who still tried to reach me on social media sometimes. I've had a toxic friend but our friendship ended so didn't need to block. I'd say it's a good decision, you gotta do what's best for you and toxic behaviour should never be accepted.

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d0esnormalmatter

4 years ago

Yes don't feel bad

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Cuntsiclestick

4 years ago

It's normal you blocked her. Just keep that distance up. No point in being friends with her.

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- strawberryfieldsforever
  
  4 years ago
  
  I plan on it, only reason I was hesitant to do it from the get go was because we work together. I'm just going to let me boss know I dont want to work on the same team as either of them. Discreetly of course.
  
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  - Cuntsiclestick
    
    4 years ago
    
    That's a good idea. If your boss is a professional, they'll listen to you,
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    - strawberryfieldsforever
      
      4 years ago
      
      Just an update. She's messaged my mom asking if I will be home tonight at 6:30 lol so shes totally noticed I've blocked her. Shes also talked to my dad.
      
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      - Cuntsiclestick
        
        4 years ago
        
        Jeez that behavior sounds creepy af. I'd avoid her if I were you.
        
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Clunk42

4 years ago

I get blocking her, but why'd you block Trev?

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- strawberryfieldsforever
  
  4 years ago
  
  He was the exact same way as she was. We all work together and when they'd walk by whether they were together or individually they would purposely walk with their head down or they would stop talking immediately as they passed me. And he's said some really gross sexual stuff to me knowing I have a boyfriend. He makes me very uncomfortable. He did it right in front of other coworkers too.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    4 years ago
    
    Good for you for blocking him too!
    
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Iszzy123

4 years ago

If you are thirsty would you drink water or toxic water?

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