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All I am saying is some people bring it on themselves to be cheated on because of their personality or making their partner feel unfulfilled. What else will explain these people I see who get cheated on by several partners? Truth or nah?
If a relationship is so entirely unfullilling, and one's partner has such an unappealing personality then why not just leave the relationship? I can't ever condone cheating like some bleeding heart douchebagger who blames the victim and advocates for the perpetrator.
Are there abusive and neglectful people who get cheated on in the world? Of course, but it's no excuse to cheat. I personally believe that unhealthy people are naturally drawn to other unhealthy people who remind them of the first unhealthy people with whom they interacted, and together they perpetually reenact the dysfunction of their formative years until one or both people get help for their own personal issues.
Case in point, the person who was raised by abusive alcoholics, but manages to marry one despite the fact that they swore they'd never do such a thing.
Anyone who even thinks seriously about cheating is mentally ill. Not caring about how much pain one causes someone they supposedly love is just sick.
If your relationship leaves YOU feeling unfulfilled, you are 50% of the problem, if not more. Get off your lazy ass and fix your relationship, or leave. Cheating is NOT a mature option.