I become obsessed with knowing information about people, is it normal?

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I'm a girl and there's this girl at my school that I am obsessed with. It's not in a sexual way or anything, but I want to be her friend so badly that I've become obsessed over that. Everyday in school I have to stare at her and what she does or my day wont be complete. I'm not friends with her, but I always have my ways to know everything about her even tough she's never talked to me. I think about her and me being friends like most of the day and just thinking of her makes me happy for some reason. I am not lesbian, I like my men, but even tough I kind of 'stalk' her.. It's really weird. Do I have some kind of OCD or problem, or is it just a stage in life?
Ps. I check her Facebook 24/7 to see if she updates stuff. Wow, I'm creepy.

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  • JadedInkStains
    14 years ago | pl

    Maybe you see something in her that you want to be? Sort of like a role model?

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  • notofthenorm
    14 years ago | pl

    I had the same exact feeling for some girl in my yoga class. She suffered from some kind of bone marrow disease that made her look like an anorexic person. I used to stare at her and wish that I could just chill and blaze with her. I think that its an attraction caused by that feeling of wanting something that you don't possess(as in the realtionship that you don't have with her.)

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  • thenbhdjesse
    6 years ago | pl

    I think you might be bisexual even if you don't know it yet, or u do but subconsciously don't want to accept it. I was like this with a girl when I was in middle school and I realized I'm gay as fuck now

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    That's not really normal to be that obsessed with her but I guess it is normal then again. I have this girl at my school I am obsessed with also, and I think that she's the most gorgeous girl ever. Everyone else thinks she's ugly and a loser and whatever but I'm pretty much in love with her... I'm bisexual. (:

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