I am ugly

I can't deny it anymore or play mental games with myself to pretend it's not true. I have to accept that I am ugly and will never find someone or be happy. I don't think I can be with another ugly person, so I think I'm screwed. Should I burn my face so I can get plastic surgery without paying outside my insurance. I was thinking of putting my face in a pot of boiling water.

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Comments ( 25 )
  • Rich_Guy

    Please don't do anything drastic. I, myself, have never been able to obtain the things money cannot buy. This shortcoming had given me clarity to pursue what is really important in life. Similarly, you should follow interests that do not depend on other people. You can always swap genital pictures with on-line whores, or use blow-up dolls as the need arises.

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  • Well, not much to say. If you aren't willing to give someone your level or lower a chance I don't see why you'd think it's fair for someone attractive to pick you.

    No, don't burn your face. Normal ugly isn't great but you aren't going to get some sort of Adonis surgery to make you look better, you'd probably end up looking a looooot worse.

    Don't be stupid. Give someone your level a chance.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I dunno, if you're ugly or not, but maybe it's your attitude that could you a facelift, huh?

    For all I know you could be a drop-dead gorgeous person with body dysmorphic disorder, a hideously ugly person or just an average run of the mill person. Regardless, I don't care what you look like, because from the sound of your post this is about way more than physical appearances. "I have to accept that I am ugly and will never find someone or be happy. I don't think I can be with another ugly person, so I think I'm screwed." Do you have any idea what that sounds like to the people who read it? What is beautiful and what is ugly is very much s subjective matter. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder!

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  • _Mehhhh_

    Everyone has insecurities, everyone. Even that "10/10 model" who you think has nothing bad about their appearance. Everyone.

    Unless you have some kind of deformity, you have the potential to look good, it just takes some work. Stop wallowing and hit the gym, get your diet together, and take care of your skin, hair etc. You'll look dateable I promise you.

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  • rayb12

    Nah, if you were ugly you would have always thought that. Most people that think they're ugly aren't. So if you've gone a while "denying" it there's no way you could be ugly

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  • SmokeEverything

    Just exercise to build muscle and do a lot of coke to help lose weight. The majority of ugliness comes from people not taking care of their appearance. Meth also helps to lose weight

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    • nikkiclaire

      Meth is good if you want to lose your teeth too 😅

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      • SmokeEverything

        You start life with way more teeth than you really need.

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  • Trenton6985

    You most likely are not ! It's usually the real ugly people who think they are hot

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  • Weird_Otaku101

    I mean i have the same mind as you i think i'm ugly all the time but you should at least love your self just a little bit
    <3

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  • Enter_namehere

    If you do cut off your face or something can you give it to me so I can make a face pizza

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  • Jonniebonnire

    Its normal.
    Although you arent ugly, other people may have different opinions and definitions of ugly, and according to at LEAST one person in this world will think that your not ugly.

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  • samiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

    NO. YOUR. NOT.

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  • dirtybirdy

    That attitude will get you nowhere

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  • lonewolf1253

    Your probably much better looking than you think you are. Stay positive, take care of your body and FORGET about hurting yourself! If you ever did decide to get plastic surgery, your natural features are the best for them to start on. Burn your face? C,mon, that's the worst thing you could do.

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  • This way of thinking is not normal. There are people in this world who have an attraction for "imperfection". I am one of them.

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  • countingsleep

    relatable

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  • Nutmegf

    a good personality is important. there is someone for everyone

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    • lordofopinions

      The best comment I have read on this post yet.

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  • bob7

    1 time i met a girl who genuinely thinks she is ugly but was one of the most beautiful girls i have seen in real life

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  • Nickvey

    being Ugly is genetic . it only means you are destined to be ugly. It never meant you could not find an attractive 10 and marry as i have seen it happen. all it means is you must excel in an area of expertise that attracts a ten rated looking person. you think you are Ugly now try dipping your face in boiling water or letting a surgeon slash you up real good with a knife. Just be sure to get a before picture when you looked like an ugly human because the only fixes i have seen the people looked more like space aliens than humans. My statement applies to both the male and female.

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  • Ummitsme

    There are ugly people of both sexes/genders. Just find your counterpart. Hell, if you have game and value as an individual, even as ugly you can outkick your coverage.

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    So? You're being ridiculous. Being ugly doesn't equal no happiness and no partner.

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  • robloxer69

    You may be ugly on the outside but if you are beautiful on the inside (or just good at sex) Then you should find someone. You sound quite shy so try and be more confident about yourself and try and be funny around others. Burning yourself is not the way to. I am sure you are beautiful.

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  • Dustyair

    It would hurt a lot, could cause nerve damage, and pain meds are getting harder to find now. Get yourself nice inflatable sex doll, or even a more expensive silicon doll for the time being. And work on your other problems till you're ready for a woman. Hell, who says you can't have both, I have ;)

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