I am socially lacking

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Im 18, started uni. My best "only" friend has moved since he goes to a different Uni so im quite lonely and bored. I play online games, and im pretty good at it and everyone likes me and wants to be friends with me, im more outgoing on there and i have a gf on there too, sad i know lol.
Its what i'll like my life to be, its not that im shy, im sorta confident and not confident like i walk like everythings kl, bump my head with my ipod on and i look like any other person outside. Maybe its because i never smile, apparently i look ticked off sometimes but lately i try to keep my face not screw faced and im not very good at conversations. Sometimes i feel like im sorta immature, when conversation arrives, other people talk really much sense then i just feel stupid. i got no male buddies now, or female friends, i can only dream of a girl friend cus it dont look like it will happen if i cant at least make friends. I've improved my appearance, drink loads of water so no spots atm, fresh haircuts as regularly as possible. i just cant seem to excel in the outside world, what should i do...:S, its becomeing depressing lol :(

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Join clubs & interest groups at university, attend events, introduce yourself to classmates, strike up conversations... All kinds of people at universities/colleges are in the same situation (alone).

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  • lotusgirl
    14 years ago

    oh man
    you sound like my brother
    you know what you should go to a nearby gym
    and work out
    girls love guys that work out
    and you can also meet a lot of guy friends there
    you can easily make friends at the gym! trust me!!
    maybe you can also get a job that involves costumer service so you'll know how to put your self out there
    you'll learn how to talk to people in real life not some online game

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    • popbody11
      14 years ago

      lol, you sound like my sister, yeh ill definately try that or something similar, thx for the advice

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      • lotusgirl
        14 years ago

        oh crap you are my brother arent ya?? haha what are you doing on this site loserrr!! ;P

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  • Iamembarrassed24/7
    13 years ago

    Yeah go to a gym but be aware of homosexuals, I have nothing against them but there are alot at the gym I went to. but not all gay some hot chicks too. If you have a good body people will notice. I plan on being a body builder someday waiting to get enough money for a home gym saves money in long run and your at your house. never wait on a barbell again and you dont drink soda and alot of water and walk everywhere so your probably skinny so youll just see muscle no fat go for it. Or joing an mma gym pricey but its fun and you can kick someones ass standing up or on the ground grappling its not as gay as it sounds.

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  • n2645t
    14 years ago

    What a consequence! lol
    dude, i gotta say i am in the same possition as you!! i feel like i got to change. get out of here and explore the world! Wene im with my company i hardly have something to say! Something is not right! Im going to try changing my daily rootine! Think it will help?

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