I am so confused, is he shy?

Ok. I have been... well me and this guy have been going to this place for over a month..
the moment he walked in, i was like .. smitten over him. It was weird because i never felt this way over a guy. Only my ex which I was over. I see attractive guys but nevr have i felt some... connection towards them?
So.. i finally musked up the courage to approach him.
I noticed he was always around me, looking at me, then looking back, and sometimes turning red when i'm around. So he was alone once, and I approached him. The moment he seen me, he blushed. i thought it was cute lol cause well it just was. I told him i was attracted to him, and he laughed and smiled. He seemed really really nervous though. It was cute then said he had to catch up with his work. Dnno what that meant.
But i think i at least did something to him. I didnt scare him, cause he continued to come back and always come around me. I am frustrated cause idk what to say. Is he shy? Is this how they behave? should i wait around.. like ahhhh i like this guy. I want to get to know him better but i dont want to do all the work..

Is It Normal?
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  • I can tell you from experience that I hate having to ask girls out the thought makes me nirvous cause of rejection. I would definiatly rather have a girl ask me out. I'm also a shy guy too though

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  • i'd forget about this guy unless you always want to be making the first move?

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  • uh yes...
    but what happens after that?
    Is he even interested in me?
    pretty much if a guy i wasnt into, came at me like that
    i'd avoid him at all costs, never coming back again
    LOL!

    so something has to be there

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  • what is an involuntary blusher?

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  • I'm pretty sure he likes you. He might just be an involuntary blusher. If so, then he likes you. You probably just make him nervous

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    • really? You think? Idk im just asking cause im used to guys always chasing me.......
      i didnt even knew shy guys existed until i met him tbh LOL!

      I dont mean to make him nervous:(:(

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  • fuck got straight to the point talking to him didn't you haha.

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  • It does? But, I just thought... guys like that stuff.
    They like when a girl is THAT ballsy enough, especially if they like the girl and they are too scared to do anything. So if she does, they will start talking to her more.
    But I guess not?

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  • Just because someone is too shy to ask you out, that doesn't mean they don't like you. It sounds like he does. You were brave enough to tell him you think he's attractive, so you're probably brave enough to ask him out--he's probably just scared of rejection or failure.

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  • he will never ask me out?
    so he doesnt like me?

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  • yeah he's shy

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  • yeah he is sounds like some people i know,start talking more to u and u probably are gonna have to do the work cuz he will never ask u out or anything from the way u describe him trust me i know

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  • anyne?

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  • If he's a child = Normal.
    If he's an adult = Not normal.

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