Keep talking to the pretty girls, eventually it will get easier. You will find one that will think it is cute that you are shy, so don't worry about it. I am a pretty enough girl and one of the things that I liked about my boyfriend when we first me was that he is a little shy.
Try telling her a joke, sounds cheesy, but if you can make her laugh then you added a brownie point. Also, don't disregard other girls just because they are not up to your standards on looks. If you are looking for a relationship then you will see that you are not going to be into her looks as much as her personality when you are together for a year.
Have stuff prepared that you are going to talk about. Like if you don't smoke, say something like, "yeah my boss at work lets everyone take a smoke break, but I don't smoke. However I still ask him if I can take a smoke break to get some fresh air, it feels good." Then right after that you can find out if she is a smoker or not, and made conversation at the same time.
Being shy is easier to overcome and deal with than you think. Think of the interview you did for your latest job. Were you nervous? Did you plan on what you were going to say?
Having something prepared to say makes things a little bit easier, right?,,, Then when you got the job you were still nervous a little about fitting in, doing a good job, etc. Then as time went on, work for you became like second nature right? Still learning new things from time to time, but that is like how a relationship is. Or should I say dating.
Rules.
1 have something planned to say, not everything, just enough to keep the conversation flowing.
2 Tell her a silly joke, girls like guys who can make them laugh. it eases tension.
3 It is okay to be nervous, that will go away with time and practice, just like at work.
4 Realize that this girl is just a person with a personality, just like you and other girls.
5 Don't worry if you fail, you will learn, just don't beat yourself up about it. It's demise.
Being mentally prepared before you go out will help you soooo much, Have fun!! Let me know how it goes!!!
I am smart but but smart girls don't indulge with me
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Keep talking to the pretty girls, eventually it will get easier. You will find one that will think it is cute that you are shy, so don't worry about it. I am a pretty enough girl and one of the things that I liked about my boyfriend when we first me was that he is a little shy.
Try telling her a joke, sounds cheesy, but if you can make her laugh then you added a brownie point. Also, don't disregard other girls just because they are not up to your standards on looks. If you are looking for a relationship then you will see that you are not going to be into her looks as much as her personality when you are together for a year.
Have stuff prepared that you are going to talk about. Like if you don't smoke, say something like, "yeah my boss at work lets everyone take a smoke break, but I don't smoke. However I still ask him if I can take a smoke break to get some fresh air, it feels good." Then right after that you can find out if she is a smoker or not, and made conversation at the same time.
Being shy is easier to overcome and deal with than you think. Think of the interview you did for your latest job. Were you nervous? Did you plan on what you were going to say?
Having something prepared to say makes things a little bit easier, right?,,, Then when you got the job you were still nervous a little about fitting in, doing a good job, etc. Then as time went on, work for you became like second nature right? Still learning new things from time to time, but that is like how a relationship is. Or should I say dating.
Rules.
1 have something planned to say, not everything, just enough to keep the conversation flowing.
2 Tell her a silly joke, girls like guys who can make them laugh. it eases tension.
3 It is okay to be nervous, that will go away with time and practice, just like at work.
4 Realize that this girl is just a person with a personality, just like you and other girls.
5 Don't worry if you fail, you will learn, just don't beat yourself up about it. It's demise.
Being mentally prepared before you go out will help you soooo much, Have fun!! Let me know how it goes!!!
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Thanks Kit it was a really nice experience you shared with me. I will defiantly give it a try, really very encouraging words!!