I am obsessed pls help

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i am a girl of 22.. .i used to study well and passed out with engineering...i love a guy for more than one year..he is working in a distant country.. .i meet him only once a year..we speak everyday ...he is really everything for me...i cant concentrate on anything for few days other than him...he is also very affectionate over me...but at times i feel like im missing him and start thinking and crying...i know he will not leave me but i dont know why im crying...i cry for everything...we are getting lots of misunderstandings nw adays...im too much possessive on him so i think that i shold guide him in everything...i at sometymes behave like a wife and tell him wat to do with money whom to speak and everything....in my point of view im doin with much care but it reaches wrong...at times i feel very jealous of his family i dont know y...due to this we fite a lot..even my frens say im stupid on him...i try to divert in other things but i cant...i really dont know y i behave like this..im becomin like a psycho..i sometymes spk very harshly but all because of too much affection over him...this leads to lots of tension...and he finds that im immature childish and torturing him...at times i control myself not to call him wantedly but i could not be without speaking...i feel like i want him with me all times...but i know it is not possible....due to these things i really cant concentrate on anything...im so depressed...i think im a big trouble to his life...im so stupid...he says nowadys he s feeling irritated with me...im afraid that i will miss him ..i cant be witout him..i love him so much...i just want to come out of this situation ...i want to be a normal girl...i want him to miss me...i cant do anything always thinkin of him like mad..daily i feel a piece of shit being like this am losing my dignity too.if anybody reads this pls come forward to help me...thank u frens in adv..tc

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  • nicknackss
    12 years ago

    Whenever you feel these reactions comming on, try to distract yourself. Limit the amount of time you are interacting with him or things related to him (like facebook, pictures, old texts etc). When you first wake up in the morning, focus on yourself. Whatdo YOU want to do that doesn't revolve around him? Do that. Try activities in which you can interact with other people outside ofyour relationship and do things you are lassionate about. Everytime you can, avoid calling him or texting him. Just focus on yourself. I'm not saying you should ignore him or completely break contact with him. But, if you give him space, he will love you more for it. Plus it will help make you more independent and self-confident that you are worthy to be with him and that you are not trouble for him. This will result in a better relationshipfor the both of you. Good luck, hon!

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    • sindhu
      12 years ago

      thanks a lot for ur valuble time...hope this helps me :) god bless

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  • chra
    12 years ago

    may God bless you dear! sorry for that. Don't think about him if will impact on your mind... because u will be mad

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    • sindhu
      12 years ago

      thanks for ur time and reply...

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  • Caryopteris
    9 years ago

    This is a difficult personality to have. There are herbal remedies that may help you cope with your anxiety and possessive love, such as chicory. Maybe this link will work. It is Dr. Bach's system. The only one I have tried has been Rescue Remedy for my dog's anxiety, and it worked. Normally they are for people but that one is for dogs and people.
    http://www.bachcentre.com/centre/remedies.htm

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  • sindhu
    12 years ago

    for ur kind information am not speaking about obesity...

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  • Shamanic
    12 years ago

    to much bla bla just read the title so some of as we dont care but most of as care if you are a bit fat or so ,you need to have some selfdiscipline to do a proper diet, stop eating junk food and exercise

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