There are many attributes that come into play when you determine attraction to men. It isn't just a symmetrical face and healthy body. You could be twitchy, or walk funny, or have frumpy clothes/hair. If you're insecure and don't maintain eye contact or are timid and can't hold a conversation; those sort of things can reduce your attractiveness.
Lucky for you style and behavior can be changed relatively easily. And lucky for you, men aren't as picky as women. Maybe do something different with your hair, buy a new outfit or two if you think your style could use some updating. Do you have a female or gay guy friend to go shopping with? Do you wear makeup? Maybe take a class if you're not so good at it. Do you wear heals? Making changes to your appearance can give you confidence that will change your behavior and make you come across as more sexy.
Put yourself out there. Maybe join an online dating site, or don't be afraid to go out to eat by yourself, especially a restaurant that serves food at a bar. Strike up a conversation with a stranger anywhere. It's always good practice to talk to men even if nothing else comes out of it. Try not to take rejection personally. It just means you and that person weren't right for eachother at that point in time. It is not a reflection on your attractiveness or value. Good luck.
I am never hit on, does this mean I am ugly?
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There are many attributes that come into play when you determine attraction to men. It isn't just a symmetrical face and healthy body. You could be twitchy, or walk funny, or have frumpy clothes/hair. If you're insecure and don't maintain eye contact or are timid and can't hold a conversation; those sort of things can reduce your attractiveness.
Lucky for you style and behavior can be changed relatively easily. And lucky for you, men aren't as picky as women. Maybe do something different with your hair, buy a new outfit or two if you think your style could use some updating. Do you have a female or gay guy friend to go shopping with? Do you wear makeup? Maybe take a class if you're not so good at it. Do you wear heals? Making changes to your appearance can give you confidence that will change your behavior and make you come across as more sexy.
Put yourself out there. Maybe join an online dating site, or don't be afraid to go out to eat by yourself, especially a restaurant that serves food at a bar. Strike up a conversation with a stranger anywhere. It's always good practice to talk to men even if nothing else comes out of it. Try not to take rejection personally. It just means you and that person weren't right for eachother at that point in time. It is not a reflection on your attractiveness or value. Good luck.