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Have you ever felt that the people around you don't listen to you, that you are an invisible person in THEIR little world. Well thats how I fell most of the time. I don't like to go to lots of places with my friends,because I like to be alone alot (except for my boyfriend.) Does that make weird>?
Your lucky you have a boyfriend then. How did you find him or is he the postman
im goingg to be honest here , i dont like to go out much with my friends but i do still see them , and when i see them i feel like would they even care if i wasnt here kinda thing , at the end of day i think its just paranoier yano what i mean?
i rather spend time with my boyfriend to be honest cos i feel wanted and sucure but i know the feelingg its horrible to feel alone.
i agree with JJBlood.
but also, its an unpleasant feeling to feel the way you do.
maybe try talking to your parents and family and explain you feel isolated and that you'd like them to pay you more attention.....
u're lucky you have a bf, at least he cares about you, right?
Personally, I think this is pretty normal. I for the most part feel the same way. Its exactly the same for me at work. They all go on about their everyday lives and other boring things, yet the things I talk about or are into just goes over their heads. Granted generation gaps may apply but even still, they think everyone wants to know details of their own lives and totally ignor those of other (not just myself). I think we all need to find our own nich in life. Unfortunatly its usually never at work... But no, I would definitely say you are not 'weird' or anything like. I completely value my privacy and 'alone' time, but do enjoy time with friends. I just don't need a million friends like most seem to do. I think that a few really good & close friends are worth more than a million. Quality over quantity.
Hope you're having a good day. :)
i voted normal
often times i find comfort in my solitude. where my mind is free to wonder and i am the most comfortable. good opportunity to clear one's mind too
and yes, i've felt that way about not being payed attention to, and it SUCKS. have friends that truly pays attention to you i guess
im the same the only two places i like to go are my girlfriends and the gym because in the gym im alone and i get away from everyone else and everything in the world and just focus on training i get to clear my mind, i hate being round lots of people and i hate going to partys or meeting new people so to me your normal
I agree with the above comment, though if people and friends are really not listening to you that is pretty alienating. You don't feel this way with your bf so may need some new people in your life, or to be more assertive & make yourself heard, or both.
No. This is often a sign of depression. It is different if you are truely alone and isolated but if you are around ppl and still feel alone I would see the help of a good dr to help you. Good luck and god bless.