Yeah I kind of agree with this. You need to talk straight up because just saying nothing is leaving you with a big load of negative feelings that just keep getting added to.
Try to be reasonable, mention a few things & what you want her to do differently that she can change. Don't dump everything on her. You'll feel better for having DEALT with her on a few doable matters.
After that DEAL with her as issues come up. Don't let it build up.
So whatever her annoying behaviours, that you consider her your Bestie says she is worth caring about. And you have to take some responsibility for not caring enough to deal with her when she is a wee bit annoying.
I am getting irritated by my best friend!
↑ View this comment's parent
← View full post
Yeah I kind of agree with this. You need to talk straight up because just saying nothing is leaving you with a big load of negative feelings that just keep getting added to.
Try to be reasonable, mention a few things & what you want her to do differently that she can change. Don't dump everything on her. You'll feel better for having DEALT with her on a few doable matters.
After that DEAL with her as issues come up. Don't let it build up.
So whatever her annoying behaviours, that you consider her your Bestie says she is worth caring about. And you have to take some responsibility for not caring enough to deal with her when she is a wee bit annoying.