wow...sounds complicated... well first off she is like soo jel that you are engaged. second she probably is bummed cus she has no "man" of her own and she is probably just wanting to look at the bright sides of being singal so she is trying to rub in your face that its way better being singal.third if she is doing this, she is not being much of a friend. soo the best thing for you to do is tell her what is going on. don't hesitate to tell her just because she is your "bestie" tell her off if you have to cus she isnt actting like much of a bestie...
Yeah I kind of agree with this. You need to talk straight up because just saying nothing is leaving you with a big load of negative feelings that just keep getting added to.
Try to be reasonable, mention a few things & what you want her to do differently that she can change. Don't dump everything on her. You'll feel better for having DEALT with her on a few doable matters.
After that DEAL with her as issues come up. Don't let it build up.
So whatever her annoying behaviours, that you consider her your Bestie says she is worth caring about. And you have to take some responsibility for not caring enough to deal with her when she is a wee bit annoying.
I am getting irritated by my best friend!
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wow...sounds complicated... well first off she is like soo jel that you are engaged. second she probably is bummed cus she has no "man" of her own and she is probably just wanting to look at the bright sides of being singal so she is trying to rub in your face that its way better being singal.third if she is doing this, she is not being much of a friend. soo the best thing for you to do is tell her what is going on. don't hesitate to tell her just because she is your "bestie" tell her off if you have to cus she isnt actting like much of a bestie...
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Yeah I kind of agree with this. You need to talk straight up because just saying nothing is leaving you with a big load of negative feelings that just keep getting added to.
Try to be reasonable, mention a few things & what you want her to do differently that she can change. Don't dump everything on her. You'll feel better for having DEALT with her on a few doable matters.
After that DEAL with her as issues come up. Don't let it build up.
So whatever her annoying behaviours, that you consider her your Bestie says she is worth caring about. And you have to take some responsibility for not caring enough to deal with her when she is a wee bit annoying.