I am falling in love with my best friend, what should i do?

I am 18 years old and my best friend (who is a girl) came with me to a wedding in my immediate family yesterday. We had a great time and went back to my house afterwards. She has never been very intimate with me but she wanted me to lay down with her etc. I didn't kiss her because I didn't want to ruin what we had if she didn't feel the same way. But I think I am falling for her. She just left for school today and I won't see her for a month. She told me she wants me to visit her in school. I don't know what to do, I feel like I am romanticizing this a little bit and I don't want to make an *** of myself and tell her due to the fact that she is the only true friend I have and I can't ruin that. I don't want to regret this, should I wait a month to see her or what? Advice please...I feel like I need to go visit her at school before I go back to my school. I feel like it would sweep her off her feet. But she's the type of girl that if I say this, and she doesn't feel the same way, it would most likely ruin everything and make it very awkward. I feel like I am about to act impulsively which usually screws me over in the long run, but I don't want her to find someone in the next month. I also don't want our relationship as friends to diminish because I won't see her for so long. Is it normal to feel this way?

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  • ^i can see your point, but you have to be so anal about it.

    at op: either tell her or get distance and make new friends. I recommended the second

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    • Yeah but dude i check the new stories and all i see is the same normal crappy stories i seen in the last list of stories it just gets anoying after a while.

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  • I think I'm falling for my best friend too.

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  • stop falling for her, it will only hurt... testified!

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  • Well it is completely nourmal to feel that way but my advice is to try it out and go visit her in school and make it a friend type of romantic first and just bring her flowers and after that if she really likes u and takes it further than that than let her take it further then u won't have anything to regret because she would be the one rushing and not u.... So I wish u the best and I really hope u take my advice... I hope it works out for u!!!!

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  • I really cant tell what to do, but anyways, GOOD LUCK man, I hope it turns out well, eventually.

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  • you need to try and make more friends regardless of what happens in that relationship. go see her, if something happens then great, if not, well at least you got to visit.

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  • -Looks at website name-
    -sighs-
    why is it that there are so many stories that miss the whole point of the website?

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