I would never say it's not normal to want someone to cuddle up with, I wanted it at 18-20.
I think having that mentality though (especially when you're very young) you are setting yourself up to fail. Most people under 30 are just enjoying being young and un-attached, having casual dates, building careers and friendships, travelling maybe. It's just not a time when most people are interested in getting very settled in with someone.
It's not to say you CAN'T find a relationship, sure some young people do it. But I think, at this point anyway, it's much healthier to just have some light-hearted dates, get a feel for what you like, don't get too attached.
I am craving a relationship - Is it normal?
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I would never say it's not normal to want someone to cuddle up with, I wanted it at 18-20.
I think having that mentality though (especially when you're very young) you are setting yourself up to fail. Most people under 30 are just enjoying being young and un-attached, having casual dates, building careers and friendships, travelling maybe. It's just not a time when most people are interested in getting very settled in with someone.
It's not to say you CAN'T find a relationship, sure some young people do it. But I think, at this point anyway, it's much healthier to just have some light-hearted dates, get a feel for what you like, don't get too attached.