I am not overweight, but I am over 45. The girls I date are most often between 19 and 23. My current girlfriend is 20. She said I am the best boyfriend she ever had, "You are perfect!"
The age hang up is cultural. Not only does it not exist in some cultures, but it is reverse in some. There are some places where women in the early 20's commonly refuse to date anyone under 30 or 35. They think men their age are too immature and fool around too much.
Back locally, I asked one very smart 19 year old on our first date, "Why do you like older men?" She said, "Because they don't expect me to pay." What I learned is that she is attracted to maturity, experience, and a sense of financial security. In a way, she wants to be taken care of because it eases her stress. Age is not part of that, so she happens to find her desired traits in much older men.
So don't listen to naysayers (usually older women who don't like the younger competition). Date whom you like.
I am attracted to my uncle even though he is much older and overweight
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I am not overweight, but I am over 45. The girls I date are most often between 19 and 23. My current girlfriend is 20. She said I am the best boyfriend she ever had, "You are perfect!"
The age hang up is cultural. Not only does it not exist in some cultures, but it is reverse in some. There are some places where women in the early 20's commonly refuse to date anyone under 30 or 35. They think men their age are too immature and fool around too much.
Back locally, I asked one very smart 19 year old on our first date, "Why do you like older men?" She said, "Because they don't expect me to pay." What I learned is that she is attracted to maturity, experience, and a sense of financial security. In a way, she wants to be taken care of because it eases her stress. Age is not part of that, so she happens to find her desired traits in much older men.
So don't listen to naysayers (usually older women who don't like the younger competition). Date whom you like.