We'll I mean of course it's normal to have an attraction to a fictional character. Just look at how many people are in love with Marceline from Adventure Time. It doesn't mean that real people can't be attractive. I won't give you the whole real people are better than fictional ones speech. I think you know. And I think it's understandable to hold affection to a character from a comic, show, or whatever. I mean she can't hurt you and the fact that she's a great character just make it better. But real people are flawed, but so are those characters, like Marceline, that we fall for.
I think you should stop trying with this real girl though. As you said there is no hope. Try finding another real girl, and move on from this one. If being mesmerized by a fictional character helps then go ahead. But you can't use Nepeta to substitute for the real girl. A fictional character can't love us, as much as we want to. The real thing though, having someone you've fixated on for so long, holding them in your arms, nothing really beats that.
I am attracted to both a real person and a fictional character
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We'll I mean of course it's normal to have an attraction to a fictional character. Just look at how many people are in love with Marceline from Adventure Time. It doesn't mean that real people can't be attractive. I won't give you the whole real people are better than fictional ones speech. I think you know. And I think it's understandable to hold affection to a character from a comic, show, or whatever. I mean she can't hurt you and the fact that she's a great character just make it better. But real people are flawed, but so are those characters, like Marceline, that we fall for.
I think you should stop trying with this real girl though. As you said there is no hope. Try finding another real girl, and move on from this one. If being mesmerized by a fictional character helps then go ahead. But you can't use Nepeta to substitute for the real girl. A fictional character can't love us, as much as we want to. The real thing though, having someone you've fixated on for so long, holding them in your arms, nothing really beats that.