Who the hell has the right to judge you? I know you're not proud of what you did, but, hey, it happened. Would you be the person you are right now if it didn't happen? I know you may not be proud of that person right now, but trust me, you will be. You don't need anybody's reassurance. You are much more than that. Much more than your actions. You have a conscience, you feel what you did wasn't right. You can accept your mistakes of the past and move on. But there is nothing to forgive, don't you get that? What you think is wrong is only wrong in your book. I get that must be hard on you but being hard on yourself won't do you any good. And you really don't deserve all the judgement you're putting on your shoulders. You judge yourself more than anybody else does. You had a rough time. You shouldn't regret one second of what you did. It made you who you are. It made you realize people are more than the names other pin on them. You may not feel like it right now, but you're strong. You made it through a really rough time. Anyone daring to call you a name can't understand what you went through. But you can, and you can let that make you a better person, a better listener for others. You had the balls to come out of this experience alive.. I bet you were depressed. Losing yourself is even harder than losing someone you love (i would know). This is your chance to become someone you're proud of. Don't lose yourself. And fuck others people's definitions of good. If you can go to bed at night thinking you made someone smile, there's nothing more you have to do.
I don't know you, yet I'm proud of you. You're brave enough to recognize your problem and seek help. You're not afraid to face consequences and judgement, but even if you are afraid, you still have the balls to face it. Your judgement hurts more than that of other people's, I know that. But if I, a perfect stranger, can be proud of you, so can you. I honestly believe I have no reason to worry for you. You're on your way to get better, you're actually halfway there. And if you made it this far it should be a lot easier now.
Trust yourself and accept yourself for who you trully are because you won't be happy living by someone else's standards or rules. If someone's holding you down cut them loose. I know it's a bunch of cliches but honestly, it's true, and it's the best advice I can give you. You'll get there. I wish you the best.
I can't even tell you how much better I feel after reading what you just wrote. I am amazed at how much better I feel from jut sharing my problem, hearing people's opinions and advice, and reading what you just said. I feel like you are the realest person on here. I got treay eyed by your supportive words. Thank you. You are an amazing person. Thank you so much<3
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Who the hell has the right to judge you? I know you're not proud of what you did, but, hey, it happened. Would you be the person you are right now if it didn't happen? I know you may not be proud of that person right now, but trust me, you will be. You don't need anybody's reassurance. You are much more than that. Much more than your actions. You have a conscience, you feel what you did wasn't right. You can accept your mistakes of the past and move on. But there is nothing to forgive, don't you get that? What you think is wrong is only wrong in your book. I get that must be hard on you but being hard on yourself won't do you any good. And you really don't deserve all the judgement you're putting on your shoulders. You judge yourself more than anybody else does. You had a rough time. You shouldn't regret one second of what you did. It made you who you are. It made you realize people are more than the names other pin on them. You may not feel like it right now, but you're strong. You made it through a really rough time. Anyone daring to call you a name can't understand what you went through. But you can, and you can let that make you a better person, a better listener for others. You had the balls to come out of this experience alive.. I bet you were depressed. Losing yourself is even harder than losing someone you love (i would know). This is your chance to become someone you're proud of. Don't lose yourself. And fuck others people's definitions of good. If you can go to bed at night thinking you made someone smile, there's nothing more you have to do.
I don't know you, yet I'm proud of you. You're brave enough to recognize your problem and seek help. You're not afraid to face consequences and judgement, but even if you are afraid, you still have the balls to face it. Your judgement hurts more than that of other people's, I know that. But if I, a perfect stranger, can be proud of you, so can you. I honestly believe I have no reason to worry for you. You're on your way to get better, you're actually halfway there. And if you made it this far it should be a lot easier now.
Trust yourself and accept yourself for who you trully are because you won't be happy living by someone else's standards or rules. If someone's holding you down cut them loose. I know it's a bunch of cliches but honestly, it's true, and it's the best advice I can give you. You'll get there. I wish you the best.
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I can't even tell you how much better I feel after reading what you just wrote. I am amazed at how much better I feel from jut sharing my problem, hearing people's opinions and advice, and reading what you just said. I feel like you are the realest person on here. I got treay eyed by your supportive words. Thank you. You are an amazing person. Thank you so much<3
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You're welcome. I'm glad you feel better. If you need to talk at any time feel free to message me :)
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Oh my godness thank you!!! Bless you, honestly. We need more people like you out there :)