well then, now you have some ideas on how to move on.
he controlled your body for a short period of time.
it's time to stop letting him continue to control it. take the bull by the horns and take control of your own body and life.
let your actions be ones you actually want. give yourself permission to be the person you want to be.
and that doesn't mean "no sex" really. you can be sexually active - but let it be because it's something you actually want with your entire heart, mind, and body.
I was unsure if using this site would be beneficial but your opinion and view on my situation has helped. Thank you for everything you've pointed out and said.
I am a senior and I've had sex with 7 people...
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ok that's a bit different then. (notably without details one cannot tell if it was date rape or attack rape)
and, interestingly, i have heard of people seeking more sex after rape. including meaningless sex
cos ... if sex becomes meaningless it means he didn't take much from you right?
the problem of course is that it ends up doing more harm than good.
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Yes that totally makes sense. It was attact. I don't drink or smoke or party or do drugs. I'm your adventage "good kid" beside all the sex...
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well then, now you have some ideas on how to move on.
he controlled your body for a short period of time.
it's time to stop letting him continue to control it. take the bull by the horns and take control of your own body and life.
let your actions be ones you actually want. give yourself permission to be the person you want to be.
and that doesn't mean "no sex" really. you can be sexually active - but let it be because it's something you actually want with your entire heart, mind, and body.
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I was unsure if using this site would be beneficial but your opinion and view on my situation has helped. Thank you for everything you've pointed out and said.