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I have had a few sexual partners one being an ex boyfriend who I loved at the time. While have sex I was unable to reach orgasm and it I started thinking this is it this is all sex has to offer. Is this normal has anyone else ever experienced this or do I need to see a sex therapist.
your porn viewing habits and the visualization can cause this. "your thoughts create your reality" applies to this practice as well, which people don't get.
I'm in the same boat as you. I prefer intimate conversations and cuddling over frequent sex.
Do you have sex via penetration? If so, it might be good to know that not all gay men enjoy anal sex. I belive the statistic says something like 20% do not find anal sex as their primary source of sexual graftification. Their are other ways to get off. Have you tried oral sex or rimming?
Man I can see your pain. I lost my virginity last week to a stranger at a party, everything was perfect until we started having actual sex. He was really horny but I couldn't even get a hardon, let alone reach orgasm. Anal sex is gross. Still, that doesn't make us less gay. Nor human.
some people just don't like sex.. and that's ok :) I don't think there is anything wrong with you for it however if it would put your mind at ease to have a check up go for it man
Im not a gay man but I dont think this is normal... I say go see the therapist