I've never liked being judgmental, but in your case, I don't even know where to start. I think you know for yourself what you need to do now. It's not much of a big deal being a virgin at the age of 31, I'm sure there are others who are in the same situation, but being unemployed and relying purely on social security can only pull down your feeling of self-worth. You need to go out there and get a job, that's the first thing. This will make you feel better contributing something to society and more confident about yourself. When the time comes, your man will come along.
One other thing to help you appreciate the situation better is to simply reverse the situation. If you ever meet a male version of yourself, unemployed for a long time, lazy and not driven, would you want to be with him?
i am 31 years old and still a virgin- is this normal?
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I've never liked being judgmental, but in your case, I don't even know where to start. I think you know for yourself what you need to do now. It's not much of a big deal being a virgin at the age of 31, I'm sure there are others who are in the same situation, but being unemployed and relying purely on social security can only pull down your feeling of self-worth. You need to go out there and get a job, that's the first thing. This will make you feel better contributing something to society and more confident about yourself. When the time comes, your man will come along.
One other thing to help you appreciate the situation better is to simply reverse the situation. If you ever meet a male version of yourself, unemployed for a long time, lazy and not driven, would you want to be with him?